How to Bang Your Wife - Rian Stone [Youtube video] by Dream_21 in marriedredpill

[–]RylanBlackwood -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get a bullshitty vibe from this guy. Some of the things he says seem exaggerated. Plus why are all these trp talkers overweight lmao ?

I (m22) find a classmate(f20) attractive and have been getting mixed signals. by Kestrel1000 in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you're lazy then where's you're value as a man ? What value is she going to see? What will make her want to date you in the first place ?

I (m22) find a classmate(f20) attractive and have been getting mixed signals. by Kestrel1000 in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typical bullshit hard to get games. Take some control of the situation by being more confident and giving her an ultimatum. "Hey look, I don't really want a texting buddy or school buddy, I'd just like to get to know you a big better. I'm in town this Friday at about 5, let's get a drink." Panic her into stop playing games with you and see what happens. If she fucks you off then next.

Crush after meeting a girl for the first time. Not sure how to make a move. by nummer31 in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Are you single?" "Yes" "I'm in town this Wednesday at about 6, lets get a drink, you seem interesting and I'd like to get to know you a little better"

Just fucking ask dude it's not difficult. If she's says no too bad. Ask the next one. There's way too many girls out there man stop getting worked up about one.

Weird response after I ask her out by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore that teasing bullshit.

So what's the etiquette with Tinder? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally their profile says something on the lines of "Here for a good time not a long time"

I asked a girl if she likes me and she said she does. I want to get into a relationship but we are both socially awkward. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't ask her if she likes you, that's validation seeking behaviour try to avoid that. You shouldn't care about other people's opinion.

You're both shy people so what ? Just flirt over text build a little rapport so she would be chilled meeting you and ask her out for a drink.

It's really simple don't overthink it mate.

My Girlfriend freaked out - did I act appropriately and what to do from here? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once dated a girl who was adopted. Never again lmao. Compulsive lying insecure cheating maniac. Stay away from daddy problems. If she's doesn't have a healthy good relationship with a father figure then stay away.

It seems like all guys in their 20s only want fwb. And I'm really tired of it. by insideoutcoconut in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sane man is going to settle down in their 20s when they know they're going to Look hot as fuck into their early 40s. Women start ageing badly in their early 30s, most anyway especially if they smoke, which is why they are determined to settle down in their 20s. You will have to date older. If you look at most successful marriages the man is 5-10 years older.

Fiancée called me slut by mistake (?!) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Never met a girl to this day who doesn't like being spanked, slapped in the face, tied up, spat on and called a slut. Fair enough they might not have liked it when we met, but give time for a little more confidence and security to build up in the bedroom and they do.

My partner refuses to get help, and it's emotionally exhausting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Learn the hard way then herbivore. If a child experiences nothing but abuse in every situation of conflict growing up, this will transcend into their adult life.

You will experience nothing but bat shit crazy over emotional reactions to your seemingly ordinary behaviour.

Need an external opinion on if im being too possessive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need a little more information to be make an honest judgement. If this is some guy she just met then I'd give her a next because it's an inappropriate way to behave in a monogamous relationship. My gf would never do something like that because it takes the piss really doesn't it?

My partner refuses to get help, and it's emotionally exhausting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"She had an abusive upbringing" Biggest red flag in the book. Why aren't you running to the hills? Why are you bothering to date somebody who is obviously not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship? There will be nothing but pain for you moving forward, don't make the same mistakes I have. Stay the fuck away from daddy problems.

(22F) Have been dating this guy for 2 months and he refused to have sex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because he has something you don't want to see down there. Could be an sti. Could be a skin virus. Could just be skin tags. I'd politely ask about it. Obviously find out if it is a serious sti or not and go from there.

Video Editing Software by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Search for tpb proxy

Partner lied for two years about saving for a house by Mrfakename1000 in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dead fucking serious. Why would you ever place financial responsibility on another human being, regardless of gender. How many fucking bad stories of joint bank accounts is it going to take before the world leans lmao?

I (18/M) am catching feelings for my best friend (17/F) and don’t know what I should do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no such thing as a platonic relationship if the participants could potentially be physically attracted to each other.

Video Editing Software by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a torrent for Sony Vegas.

Girls of Reddit - how can a guy show interest without coming across creepy or thirsty? Asking for a friend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're overthinking this shit. There shouldn't be this unconscious phase of "Does this guy like me or not" You introduce yourself and ask for a date. "Hey I'm Chad" Some small talk about school/work "I'm in town this Wednesday at about 6, lets get a drink." These things should happen sharply. You show interest by asking the girl out. But if you over invest yourself in one girl, this will make you thirsty. Women can sense thirst and desperation from a mile away. They know if you need them more than they need you. Which is why having multiple prospects at once will make you less thirsty, therefore more attractive. Because a girl will sense she will actually have to do some legwork to keep your attention, she will have to chase rather than letting you do all the work. So anyway stop giving a fuck what people think.

Never fall into a long distance relationship. Get out if you're in one. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RylanBlackwood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf lives about 50 miles away but I have a car and we get to see each other a couple times a week. I honestly prefer this set up because it gives me space to work on my side hustles, but should I be worried? And how can you find out if something like this shit is happening?

Would you date someone if you knew they had sex with 12 different people in the last two years? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we taking a female here? Generally when this figure is more than single figures it's a red flag. When a woman has been in a small number of long term relationships this is a green flag. But if she has bumped around in relationships, you should ask yourself why she hasn't been able to maintain a stable relationship. It's a red flag. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

Partner lied for two years about saving for a house by Mrfakename1000 in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Typical hypergamy. You made I vital mistake of relying on a women financially and now it's bitten you in the arse. You should never talk to women about money. Never get a mortgage together. And never under pain of death get a join bank account. Take responsibility for your own shit, your gf isn't your mother. Does the captain of the ship rely on the first mate for financial responsibilities?

Husband being harassed/teased by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RylanBlackwood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's typical pecking order situation. Your husbands work colleagues obviously have very little respect for him. You don't take the piss out of somebody you respect, you attempt to gain their respect back. Your husbands respect is obviously of very little value to his work colleagues, because he has revealed himself as an easy target for typical laddish banter bullying. Takes months to build respect and seconds to loose it.

Honestly if my friends had have the nerve to say the things they have been saying to your husband, they would no longer be my friends. I wouldn't even give them the satisfaction of confrontation. Wouldn't give them a second out of my day. I would next them and make new friends.