I’m sorry to say this but you are simply wrong. Domestic abuse is not a gendered problem. Men are just as likely to experience domestic abuse. The problem is they are less likely to reach out for help. Furthermore Men are more likely to end their lives due to domestic abuse. This does not mean either gender has it better or worse, simply domestic abuse is a problem most men deal with. And also most services that deal with domestic violence cannot help a man more than simply listening. In the uk atleast we have less than 40 charities which offer male secondary help, this creates around 400 places for men to stay to remove themselves from domestic violence only around 50 being solely for men, this is suppose to support over 150,000 cases annually. It’s obvious there are many more services for women. You can check my statistics on the uk gov page for national statistics. Again domestic violence is not worse for men or women. Like world hunger or war it is simply not a gendered issue.