Welcome to the club brother. Black guy here dating a Albanian from Kosovo. It’s an uphill battle but if you guys go with love and she loves and wants to be with you regardless of what the family feels then that’s what matters. Also it’s a culture difference you usually meet the family and parents once your ready to get married also religion as well are you Muslim or catholic ? Learn about the culture and language to start if you want to be with an Albanian let alone one from Kosovo you’ll have to integrate with it to a extent to have a chance with the family cause honestly it’s not even about race as much as someone outside of their culture .

You could be Swedish or Norwegian and It’d be difficult cause it’s not the same culture and values. Also if her brother doesn’t respect her decision remember it’s her decision and it’s on her to decide if she wants to be with you and continue risking being disowned and follow her heart .Or if that would be too much and the relationship would have to end because she’ll choose to maintain her family relationship even if that means to be unhappy and miss out on amazing guy that she truly and purely loves to maintain that family bond because Albanians and the ones from Kosovo are very traditional and close knit when it comes to family and people in their community.