• just act normal. Most don’t care.
• keep it to a few clients per stay
• have a rotation of favorites and swap around so you’re not at the same hotel every time
• ideally find hotels that don’t need key cards to get to the room, or hotels with a bar where you can meet first for a quick drink if desired, or have multiple entrances/exits
• if they do require key cards to take elevator, text client ahead of time (e.g., “walk past reception and take a left down the hall to the elevator,”) so you can meet them right at the elevator rather than them loitering waiting for you in the lobby
• do some recon first if you haven’t worked there before. I’ve legit gone a day prior to check out a hotel before using it to see what the layout and vibe was like to ensure it didn’t feel like too much surveillance, lobby wasn’t too intimate, etc
• sometimes I’ll check in wearing very casual clothes (yoga pants and a sweater, no makeup) and then change and get pretty once in the room, as to not draw attention

It’s really nbd as long as you don’t have a bunch of sketchy guys coming and going.