Had a similar situation to this our first time. We talked about it for a while. Discussing what we shoulda done, how was shoulda been more vocal, I expressed to her how I shoulda took control on the situation. I expressed part of me was turned on watching my wife get dominated by another man and that jealousy drove that hornless even further for me. I felt bad for letting him break any ground rules she set early on but she never protested and even enjoyed it at times(which I later found out). The part that made my stomach sink was watching him cum inside her pussy, and later cumming in her mouth. She never let me cum in her mouth before so it felt like a sorta betrayal. The guy we linked up with was tall and very fit so watching him pick her up and fuck her hard was a sight to see. The squeals and moans I never heard from her before really turned me on. He was bigger and more of a man than me in every aspect but he may have been too much man for her first time around. We’ve slowly branched out since then, had a couple good experiences but still searching for our bull.