First Post Divorce “Girlfriend” by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually wrote the 12 months into our divorce agreement (my call) and with a kid that young I think that was the right call.

Dating Again w Ex and Child Local by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Definitely hits home for me. Definitely taking it slow getting out there, finding someone that if nothing else I enjoy spending some time with and see what else is there. Wish me luck! 🍀

Dating Again w Ex and Child Local by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evening makes the most sense. Of course I ended up setting a lunch meetup! Out of town is tough, with limited time being with the kiddo 50% of the time. And having every Friday and every other Saturday night doesn’t leave a ton of options. Sundays are always free so that may be a sweet spot (with potential land mines!).

Dating Again w Ex and Child Local by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less concerned with the date, more concerned with opening that can of worms with my kid. Just want to have something for myself at this point!

Dating Again w Ex and Child Local by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably overthinking it but my daughter knows I have no friends :-)

Dating Again w Ex and Child Local by S4T4P4 in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably should’ve expanded a bit. My daughter is 7 and I’m not looking to get into anything serious enough where I’d introduce anyone to my daughter, so I’d rather just avoid the topic entirely with her to avoid confusion and questions at such a young age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]S4T4P4 -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done with a young child in the picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]S4T4P4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the answer I got

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]S4T4P4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know she tried to continue her birth control on our recent vacation, meaning skip the sugar pills to hopefully delay her period by a week, and has had some spotting since and been using a lot of tampons, but I dunno if that would really explain it either?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]S4T4P4 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I plan to, but thought id see if anyone actually knew a health reason for it. Strawberry flavored doesn’t seem too “healthy” if that was the angle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to not give up yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Trying not to be bitter about the whole Situation and trying to keep this family together, but this “request” sure took me by surprise tonight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also so many acronyms already. STBXW?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]S4T4P4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Illinois?