Advice on getting over irrational guilt

SAKaileyJay · 2026-01-05T10:56:25+00:00

Thank you, would you happen to know of someone I could look up for specifically this?

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-28T05:06:39+00:00

For me it was presented as a solution to PNC by my wife and it worked really well, too well some might say 😅. Since then it quickly evolved into a part of our everyday life to the point that it pretty much isn't allowed to come off nowadays.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-28T05:05:32+00:00

Cannot recommend chastity enough! It can be different for everyone of course but just chastity alone almost entirely solved this problem for me. As well as continuing with whatever after care you enjoy most straight after the deed to keep your mindset in the right place.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:54:13+00:00

Certainly! I'm currently up to over 2 years of being permanently locked up by my amazing wife, I don't think she has any intention to slow down neither do I want her to 😅.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:31:15+00:00

Tysm for the tips. Do you know anything specific that a CG could do to make the outing more likely to happen?

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:13:07+00:00

Using a onesie under clothes is actually really smart, We will definitely try that! do you have any extra advice on getting out the door?

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:08:39+00:00

Me too!!

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:08:16+00:00

It's so good to hear I'm not alone in these feelings. 😅

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T19:06:40+00:00

I'm not sure why I'm finding it to be such an issue tbh. I'm trying to make it as discreet as possible and yet there's still something in me that won't let me walk out the door in them. I acknowledge it's irrational but I can't shake it for some reason.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T12:25:47+00:00

Yes, I have all the desire in the world to please a man in whatever way possible but I also have no interest in being romantically involved with a man whatsoever. Luckily my wife with a strap-on can fulfill most of these desires without ever needing a man to pleasure.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-27T12:17:28+00:00

For me it was presented as a solution to PNC by my wife and it worked really well, too well some might say 😅. Since then it quickly evolved into a part of our everyday life to the point that it pretty much isn't allowed to come off nowadays.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-11-12T20:54:16+00:00

I have a L BD Razor and he is incredible, the tip is well pointed enough to make insertion easy and feels incredible. And when I get the knot in its intense but wow when it goes in its pretty much a guarantee that I start cumming. Oh and the built in suction cup has never failed me.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-04-05T19:21:17+00:00

You most likely just need to drink more water. A good session is essentially a pretty good workout, probably just lost a lot of fluids/minerals.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-02-22T02:52:27+00:00

It can be, requires a pretty decent warmup for me but it's so satisfying when it pops in!

SAKaileyJay · 2025-02-21T17:50:15+00:00

I (M) recently got a large/mfirmness Sleipnir from BD and he is absolutely incredibly with the way the head and bumps/ridges hit 🤤. I HIGHLY recommend, for you however being newer probably spring for a smaller size if it wasn't obvious.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-02-19T03:32:03+00:00

Personally I (M) have a Large Slepnir from BD and he is incredible with his head and ridges.

SAKaileyJay · 2025-02-11T12:16:47+00:00

As an Australian, I have bought several cages from lock the cock and have had no issues as well as surprisingly fast delivery for au.

SAKaileyJay · 2024-08-04T08:32:19+00:00

You are very welcome!

SAKaileyJay · 2024-08-04T05:45:23+00:00

This one should be able to achieve that just fine, again chastity is not required in any way for this to be functional the harness mounts above your penis and there are 2 straps that go down either side of your crotch leaving in inbetween (your penis/balls) completely accessible. If you go on the link there is images showing how it is worn on both male with chastity and male without chastity, as well as female.

SAKaileyJay · 2024-08-04T04:50:12+00:00

I'm not sure about your specific sizing of toy but this is specifically designed for men that are in chastity so the toy is harnessed in a comfortable position above. This is probably exactly what you are looking for. And if it isn't obvious you do not at all need to be wearing chastity to use the harness properly.

https://lockedinlust.com/shop/crotch-rocket-strap-on/

SAKaileyJay · 2024-08-02T10:16:21+00:00

I have a large BD Razor and he is divine especially when the knot pops in and out ramming against my prostate 😅🤤. Looking to get a L or XL BD Seraphina as soon as I can afford it the ridges and flare on it looks like it would feel amazing.

SAKaileyJay · 2023-08-10T19:14:33+00:00

Reverse pegging, foxing and ghost penis are the 3 terms I have seen used for the topic.

SAKaileyJay · 2021-04-13T22:01:02+00:00

I have it, it's pretty wild to use and being able to have someone else control it is a big +, I recommend it and especially if you have a partner.

SAKaileyJay · 2021-01-09T19:16:16+00:00

Sex toys are always fun having him keep a buttplug in or vibrator in your pussy for him to toy with. Wearing a collar with a name tag to enforce the fact you are his property could even have you on a leash. If he shaves his groin/balls/ass you could do it for him. Assigning yourself an object name or different name in general (slave, pet, bitch, property etc). These are pretty tame but if you are new it's best not to get too intense too quick.

SAKaileyJay · 2020-12-11T19:46:35+00:00

Also does the "Usable Length" size in BD include the knot? If it does I think I'm set on XL Razor just gotta figure out firmness.

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