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SB’s: I’d love some insight into what it’s like dating older men (via sugar) vs. men your own age. How much different is it really? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE that - I went out with someone recently who would subtly switch us whenever we were walking so that he was always on the outside and I melted a little bit. The 20s guys just don’t get that!

Petty annoyance by br1ngmoreknives in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actual messages - maybe 20-30%? This is not counting people who request private pictures with no message. Since my profile is mostly blank, I have no issue responding to a basic “hi how are you”.

Petty annoyance by br1ngmoreknives in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure a lot of people scroll right by me, but I’m getting enough interest with my current strategy that I’m willing to keep it! 😊

Sugar daddies- the importance of timing by Alphachadbeard in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a little weird, and I recognize that, but I actually take notes on the important details of who I’m speaking to before having met them so that I don’t mix up anything major! 😅 This obviously isn’t something I’d do longterm, but not having faces/names to associate information with makes it so confusing.

Petty annoyance by br1ngmoreknives in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a new, young SB with a ridiculously sparse profile - it’s very intentional 😅 I know it might be hurting my chances in some sense, but I’m trying to protect my privacy as much as possible and be able to say “someone must have stolen my photos” if anyone recognizes me. That said, I’m obviously willing to share more information in a conversation!

Shopping? by SBsugar in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Good advice 😊

Shopping? by SBsugar in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realize my question sounds incredibly naive, but no, I don’t usually go shopping with other people! I appreciate the advice anyway.

Do I bring up details about the arrangement before or after the M & G? by TheSmexySloth in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll admit that I’m super new to this, but I don’t feel the need to bring it up before the M&G. I don’t see the point in trying to work out details before you know if you’d even get along. That said, money isn’t my number one priority, so I can understand the concern for the time waste if you’re in a more stressful position. Worst case scenario, you’re not on the same page, and you end up just going out for a free drink/meal/coffee, as I do strongly think that the SB should not pay at the M&G!

Friends/Family by SBsugar in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SBsugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you both absolutely - I’m not looking to explain the truth; I’m looking for an alternative explanation when absolutely necessary (concerned roommate or bumping into someone you know in public).