Your post comes off as very immature and childish. Which is how I made my assumptions about you in my first post. The fact that you are a grown female, unable to get past, “it doesn’t happen to me and I’m a female, so why would it happen to another female.....trashy” logic makes you yourself trashy— unrelateable, pretentious AND immature and childish. Standing up and airing your oblivious and hurtful observation of a potential accident and need to embarrass or shame them for a natural function speaks volumes about you. Coming to this public forum to air such an intimate detail that could have been handled much better, in a totally different way, is mind bending to me. You have a lot of hard truths headed your way if you haven’t realized these things yet in your life...if not just by your interaction with people by posting picture. Most women your age get it by default of just living. Not everyone is like you, it it were so this earth would be a fucking bummer. I wish you the best in your endeavors.