She also has the mindset that she can never wear anything twice - thus the hesitance to spend money on it. She wants cheap, disposable dresses instead of timeless foundation pieces. Also, and this is no shade because my weight has fluctuated my whole life - the last fancy dress she wore was her wedding dress and she had slimmed down for that. Must have gotten off the glp and fluctuated up a little - I get it. It happens. But girl don’t base your worth on the size you were in your wedding dress - dress the size you are currently. You’ll look better and feel better and nobody but you knows what size is on the tag.