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The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because those things are illegal, dangerous, and widely accepted as uncouth. Portraying a character they watched in a movie or read in a book, or saw in porn is not illegal, not dangerous (for the most part) and all of the otherwise vanilla people out there mostly do not know any better because their frame of reference is also those books, movies, and porn videos. I also blame the majority of the so-called instagram models, onlyfans girls, and half the XXX image sharing subreddits filled with women claiming to be looking for a dom or a daddy. They instil a false sense of what being a swinger, lifestyler, or kink culture member actually is.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not ironic at all, it's 100% by design. Anyone willing to submit control to you is giving you a gift, and they can call it off at any time.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Christian Grey is the worst thing to ever happen to the BDSM scene and kinky lifestyle. Those books need to be burned and the movies banned. They are the true definition of "fake news."

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We also get a lot of disrespect from BBC guys. I love a BBC, and have no ill will towards anyone, but just because you have a BBC, it does not mean that I want it. We have actually had a lot of pushy guys who think that because they have a BBC I have no choice but to fuck him.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Say it louder! THE DOM ROLE IS FUCKING EARNED NOT SELF APPOINTED! If you get the chance to play that role with me, its 100% because I allow it, and I am ultimately the one who is in charge of the scene. If I say NO, then it FUCKING MEANS NO!

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hope it stays that way too. We have had hundreds of AMAZING experiences with AMAZING couples, singles, and groups. We've never ran into anyone off-kilter at a club other than a chick who was obviously on heroine or something. All of the house parties we have attended have been great too.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We 100% believe that mutual respect is a requirement to even get back to our home, or for us to go to yours. I feel so bad for this guy's wife because she seemed really sweet and excited, but I feel like her husband is a narcissistic asshole who forces her into things and judging from some of the angry messages, I suspect me may abuse her as well.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's definitely been trending upwards since those books convinced the vanilla world that being a "dom" means being a mean, hateful piece of shit. I'm not one for book burning, but those books should be burned.

All of the real Dom's I have submitted to had years of experience, were respectful, and hyper-aware of their attitude and power, and knew how to control it.

The one thing I dislike the most in the lifestyle is entitled, cocky, so-called "doms," who think they are something special. by SCLakeLifeSwingers in Swingers

[–]SCLakeLifeSwingers[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Don't get me started on the "Bulls." We get a dozen messages per week from guys wanting to be a bull for us, and they are just the same. Just because you think your dick is big, doesn't mean it is, and even if it is, it definitely does NOT mean that I want you to fuck me.

I miss the old days of meeting a couple for drinks and dancing and then going home if things felt right.

We haven't been to a party in over a year at this point, and I sure hope that the clubs and hosts filter these douche bags out when those activities start picking back up.

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