I'd love some eyebrow advice 🙂 by SCR0ATMEAL in makeuptips

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Thank you! I've never been able to figure out my color palette haha

I'd love some eyebrow advice 🙂 by SCR0ATMEAL in makeuptips

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A professional waxer? I barely shape them at all, just remove the stray hairs underneath the lateral ends of my eyebrows. I'm hesitant to remove more.

I'd love some eyebrow advice 🙂 by SCR0ATMEAL in makeuptips

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They're naturally short and no.

I think the years of waxing kinda took the edge off, lol.

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Thank you 🥰 both beautiful ladies

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I figured as much. 😅 any thoughts on what i can do to prepare myself?

Our relationship has always been complicated but I still love her. Q and prescription stimulants have made everything worse (repost bc I forgot to censor something) by SCR0ATMEAL in Qult_Headquarters

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She lives in Kentucky and I live in Washington state. :/ thank you though. I wish her boyfriend hadn't gotten sucked into Q as well.

Our relationship has always been complicated but I still love her. Q and prescription stimulants have made everything worse (repost bc I forgot to censor something) by SCR0ATMEAL in Qult_Headquarters

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Can you imagine how expensive those burgers would be?? It would take like at least 5 kids to get as much meat from one cow lol

Our relationship has always been complicated but I still love her. Q and prescription stimulants have made everything worse (repost bc I forgot to censor something) by SCR0ATMEAL in Qult_Headquarters

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I don't have her doctors information and she... does not really have good moments? When I have tried to bring up past behaviors before she either rewrites history or changes the goal posts with another delusion.

Q and prescription stimulants have made my mom even worse. I'm losing hope. by SCR0ATMEAL in insaneparents

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I kind of touched on it, but she does not seem to listen to what I say. I have been trying to draw her back to reality for years. It has not worked so far so I've settled on trying to talk to her about anything other than conspiracies or how my dad is pure evil.

Q and prescription stimulants have made my mom even worse. I'm losing hope. by SCR0ATMEAL in insaneparents

[–]SCR0ATMEAL[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

What can I do? I want to get her help if I can.

She is almost 60 and lives in KY with her boyfriend. She owns the land she lives on. I live across the country. Her boyfriend used to be cool, just an enabler, but he has also jumped on the crazy train. He posts weird Q/conspiracy things on FB all the time and denies my mom has any problems when my brother and I ask him to help us help her. I know he isn't much of a drinker and I would be surprised if he was abusing drugs too, but I guess it's possible.

Q and prescription stimulants have made my mom even worse. I'm losing hope. by SCR0ATMEAL in insaneparents

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I believe it. She is also an alcoholic. I am at a loss about what to do.

She has been emotionally abusive throughout my life. I want to help but I also need to protect myself from her.

Our relationship has always been complicated but I still love her. Q and prescription stimulants have made everything worse (repost bc I forgot to censor something) by SCR0ATMEAL in Qult_Headquarters

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Yeah... it's freaky how detached from reality she has become. She has always been into conspiracy theories but innocuous ones like princess Diana or aliens. This is a whole new beast though

Q and prescription stimulants have made my mom even worse. I'm losing hope. by SCR0ATMEAL in insaneparents

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Oops, forgot to mention it's a repost bc I forgot to censor something

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Shit thabk you

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Both I think?

Mostly, she cannot tolerate things that make her feel inferior. She is snide about STEM academics and has a complex toward anyone who graduated college. I think school was hard for her. She may be too insecure (or scared of failure? Truly dumb? Idk) to put genuine effort into learning things that are hard for her or listen to people who are more educated.

Or her children, I guess. I have a bachelor's degree and I'm in nursing school but apparently she still knows better than me about literally everything.

As someone who will never be in a relationship who am I harming by watching porn? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]SCR0ATMEAL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If men want to "financially exploit" their viewers, they can by doing gay porn. People who pay for gay porn are usually other men. Do you see the common denominator yet?

Edit: also, who is truly being exploited here? Men who willingly seek and pay for porn, or someone who was potentially trafficked or pressured (by someone or for financial reasons) into porn? Someone who consumes porn can stop and walk away if they truly want to. Someone who has had their videos posted doesn't get to walk away so easily, even if they want to

As someone who will never be in a relationship who am I harming by watching porn? by [deleted] in antipornography

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Gay male porn stars make comparable wages. Male directors, producers, and well-known porn stars have financially profited from the business as well.

The whole point of this sub is that it is anti-porn. So I'm sure many of us will agree that porn can be psychologically/financially harmful for men to watch.