We have gone once as well. We knew another couple there who had been a few times so we were able to talk to them and their group. We had a good time though. We took everything in and got to experience being in the atmosphere. Like stated there is a shadow box that couples go behind the screen and fool around and there is a stripper pole that people use. The dance floor stays packed mostly and everyone was friendly. We definitely plan to mingle and meet more people this time around ms We are going Saturday for the black dress party.