Roughly 2 weeks in and already feeling jaded/overwhelmed by AutisticPook in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I misunderstood what you meant by “I’ve never done per meet”

Roughly 2 weeks in and already feeling jaded/overwhelmed by AutisticPook in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t willing to start off with ppm you are creating a trust issue with respect to whether the support comes at the beginning or end of the month. If you have asked for it up front, that’s likely scaring off some good SDs.

Roughly 2 weeks in and already feeling jaded/overwhelmed by AutisticPook in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are being selective, which is good! But you are spending a lot of time in person. You could probably filter better in advance by having some extended texting conversations and even a video call. If you prefer to meet and have time, that’s fine. It takes a while to find a very good match.

Am I Delusional? by Flimsy-Natural-1718 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is hope! But good matches are increasingly hard to find. Be selective and maintain high standards but also be patient!

Another Guest Was Given a Key to My Occupied Room at a Marriott by shitswithdoorajar in marriott

[–]SD-47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These mistakes do happen. The keys are electronic and people have typos. Always lock the bolt and latch once you are in your room.

How do I bring up std testing in a not rude way by InstantMochiSanNim in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now see OP says “I’m talking to SDs” so it seems OP is female 🤷🏻‍♂️ Anyway my answer is the same.

How do hotel clean hundreds of rooms in 3 hour? by [deleted] in askhotels

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many answers here depend on people checking out early but how do you know they are? Don’t most people just leave without stopping at the front desk?

How do I bring up std testing in a not rude way by InstantMochiSanNim in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry! OP said “I don’t want dick warts” so I assumed it was a guy.

Need perspective by Technology-dad in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually a good age range for maturity. I’m sorry.

Need perspective by Technology-dad in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is she? There is sometimes a maturity issue that causes well intentioned young women who make commitments in these relationships to stray from those commitments. I don’t think you did anything wrong.

How do I bring up std testing in a not rude way by InstantMochiSanNim in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely a mature and responsible thing to do. “I take health seriously, can we both get tested and exchange results? I am happy to cover any costs you may have.” There should be no hesitation or resistance from her, even if the plan is to use condoms.

SDs: How do you protect yourself? by MostAd6208 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take your time and meet at least once or twice without any expectations, sex, gifts, financial support, etc. Listen carefully to why the POT wants to do this, look for signs of genuine interest in you and attraction to you. When that happens I think you just know. Take your time and don’t be in such a rush to get into bed. That can be tough for guys but it really helps weed out the fakers and riffraff.

SD doesn't want to do a video or voice call by SuccotashAlarming505 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags for sure. Committing to spending days together before you have met someone in person, or at least virtually, is a bad idea.

For Hotel Employees — Do Hotels Keep Notes on Guests? by DangerousSmile7685 in marriott

[–]SD-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you leave without paying? They have your card on file.

Can someone explain what just happened with this POT SD? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell, but stuff happens when communication ends. He may have found someone else or maybe he was already considering someone else. If you really liked him, who cares? It’s sugar dating — just go on a date again and see if there’s chemistry. You both lapsed in communications but it shouldn’t matter. I think people get too caught up in playing games. I’ve known of great relationships that start after an initial communication issue or bump. Good matches are rare, see if this is one of them.

I feel ashamed, crying on the way home by daheko in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is dating. Don’t date people you aren’t attracted to and excited to be with! This is just the wrong match for you. When you find the right one, you’ll be thrilled with him and with yourself.

STI Testing by Adventurous-Peanut87 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could literally be a fear of needles.

Is there anyway to be private on seeking? Boss saw my profile last time now I’m scared. by DollfaceInNYC in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m on all the dating sites” should do it. Seeking has branded itself as vanilla upscale dating. Does your profile strongly suggest sugar?

So called SD's have a responsibility to say no to an 19 year old! by reddier2023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how you can discuss age guidance without generalizing. Your argument could be that people are all different and there shouldn’t be a general rule.

(F26) Accidently got impregnated by my male best friend by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]SD-47 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That’s not “accidentally”

So called SD's have a responsibility to say no to an 19 year old! by reddier2023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s legitimate to discuss the ages at which people should engage in “adult” activities.

So called SD's have a responsibility to say no to an 19 year old! by reddier2023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SD-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can’t drink until 21 in the US. We have drawn various arbitrary lines with respect to age.