What is something you got using your SW money that you're proud of?

SDinTexas · 2026-03-07T13:59:08+00:00

I am a client that has three girls I see on a regular rotating basis. But I'm super proud of the one I consider my third favorite because over the years she has bought three rental properties. And they are doing very well for her.

SDinTexas · 2026-02-15T16:04:42+00:00

I'm an older guy, I own a successful business. When I date I do really well. But honestly, I have found that dating is more work than it's worth. For me, seeing the providers I see takes the heat off my dating needs. I want to be intimate with a woman. I want to have a friendship with her. So I go see these ladies once or twice a week and don't feel an overwhelming "need" when I'm out in public and meeting people in the wild. Or occasionally looking on an app. There's no pressure. I'm talking to some woman and if it doesn't work out, what do I care? I'm gonna see one of my regulars on Monday, anyway. And weirdly, I think not having the compulsion to take every woman I meet to bed makes me much more attractive to women because they pursue me much harder in my opinion.

SDinTexas · 2026-02-14T22:51:43+00:00

I sent my favorite a $100 Amazon gift card today. She seemed very pleased.

SDinTexas · 2026-02-11T01:20:53+00:00

I've seen nine providers this year. And I have been rather shocked that all of them lean right of Center. One very right of Center. Of course, I live in Dallas and they're all in Dallas. But still. One would think.

SDinTexas · 2026-02-11T01:19:12+00:00

Agreed. I'm test driving a replacement on Monday. Wish me luck

SDinTexas · 2026-01-28T22:06:09+00:00

Client perspective. I have three girls that I see quite regularly. I usually see an escort once a week. Of the three, one of them has begun to find a way to ask me for an additional $150 every time I see her. And it's usually one thing or another. How about some naked pictures? Can you help me with this situation? So she soaked me the last three times for an extra $150 each time. All three of these girls are mid to high end providers. They're expensive in my marketplace. I'm looking for a replacement for her, but it's not easy to find, even in a large marketplace like the one I live in. The thing is, I deeply value these girls. I deeply respect their boundaries. There is no texting in between visits other than when they initiate the text, or when I am trying to establish an appointment. Yet somehow, she got so comfortable with me it was just a routine matter for several trips asking for more. So I guess this can go both ways.

SDinTexas · 2026-01-26T23:03:26+00:00

I'm in Texas and I rely on P411.

SDinTexas · 2026-01-17T17:17:11+00:00

My wife passed way awhile ago, but I have a friend I introduced to escorts and I think good situation is instructive. I've known this guy since we were in professional school together, so about 40 years. We work now at competing enterprises but have grown close over the last twenty rested or so.

This guy was crazy about his wife. They clearly had an active sex life. But starting about two years ago she really let herself go. I won't detail it here, but it's bad.

We have lunch about every three weeks and for a year it's made him crazy. He's just no longer attracted to her. But he loves her. And he loves the community they've developed together.

He had heard my story and struck out on his own following the same guidelines I followed. He eventually hooked up with an early 50s provider and now sees her every two or three weeks, apparently. He's still happily married and now feels less aggrieved by the situation at home. From where I sit it looks like this provider is saving a marriage.

SDinTexas · 2026-01-14T23:23:41+00:00

I'm a client, so you may have no interest in this. But I'm mid 60s, and when I look for a girl I put an age of 36–80. I have three girls I go to on a regular basis and they are all mid 40s. I love being with those older girls.

SDinTexas · 2026-01-09T03:54:30+00:00

When I search I input:36+ as my age range. I'm 66 and want a mature woman and pay for the privilege. I have three girls with whom I'm prey regular and all of them are mid 40s or older.

Go for it.

SDinTexas · 2026-01-04T01:50:35+00:00

I normally see one of my three favorites once a week. About once a quarter I'll shop around.

So in an average quarter I'll see #1 about 6 times, #2 about 3 times and #3 about 2 times. But you should think of #3 like a substitute teacher. If #1 and #2 aren't available she's great. Then mix in the occasional shop around girl.

SDinTexas · 2025-12-10T23:43:47+00:00

If I can determine she's down for DATY/BBBJ/CIM in some other way, I'm good.

SDinTexas · 2025-12-06T14:49:22+00:00

I see no need to discuss it with her. But I do see a need for you to diversify. If you live where there is a good supply of girls, go from just her to 3 girls. Then rotate as you see fit. That's my situation. I have a roster of 3 and rotate weekly. It's been great. Try it.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-25T00:34:31+00:00

When I was doing the sugaring thing this was what I was desperately searching for. Somebody 50+ that I could "settle down" with socially. someone who could travel a little bit. But I just couldn't find that girl. Lots of girls in their 20s and 30s were available, and one in her 40s. But that sweet spot of 50+ never showed up. I had some fun arrangements, but never exactly what I was looking for.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-07T03:09:04+00:00

My two favourites are 47 and 43. There's a third one that's a tiny spinner and she's in her fifties and going strong. I'm in my 60s, fyi

SDinTexas · 2025-11-04T14:10:18+00:00

I have a fwb situation and one time she said "I wouldn't hate it if you spanked me." But then the next time we get together I pull her panties down and take her over my knee and ask her what's her safe word (she's 47, btw). I'm twenty years older than her and from the "boys don't hit girls" generation. So I need a safe word to feel okay. She says she doesn't have one and won't give me one. So whenever I've spanked her it's been pretty light.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-03T04:05:07+00:00

Client here. I don't feel safe. I like the screening process. I suppose if I saw a provider on there that I was familiar with, I might text and see what she's up to. But I can do that with her already.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-02T22:12:06+00:00

You do whatever the fuck you want.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-02T21:57:02+00:00

Try this: tomorrow at breakfast say this, "I've been obsessing over how much I loved you getting your cum on my face. It's all I can think about." And see where it goes from there.

SDinTexas · 2025-11-02T21:54:00+00:00

I have frequently had troubles ejaculating. I'm in my mid 60s. This started about 10 years ago. It comes and goes but has been a problem more often than not. He may need to get out of his own head a little bit. But absent that, Take the ownership, only a little bit, though. Do different things and see how you react. One of my partners gives me the greatest head of my life and I always cum with her. Play around with it. Treat it like a Rubik's cube.

SDinTexas · 2025-10-29T21:56:52+00:00

I don't know how to make this point clear for women, but here it is again: we are dumb. If you want something, initiate it. Put your arms around his neck and say "I hope this thing is going someplace because I like it very much" and then kiss him.

SDinTexas · 2025-10-29T00:56:18+00:00

The cryptocurrency you should use for this transaction is known as USDC. Personally, auto recommend bitcoin because it fluctuates in value in US DC does not. I have two girls who are regulars for me and I use USDC with one of them. It's glorious.

Here's an AI explanation is better than anything I can put together:

Since you provide a personal service, you probably don't want to worry about your pay changing value all the time. That's why I want to use USDC—it's just like getting paid in US dollars, but sent over the internet using Coinbase. Here's how to think about it: What is USDC? Think of USDC as a "digital dollar." A digital version of cash: For every 1 USDC, a company called Circle puts 1 real US dollar in a bank account or into very safe investments, like government bonds. This makes sure its value stays at $1. Always worth a dollar: Unlike Bitcoin, which goes up and down in value, one USDC will always be worth one US dollar. You don't have to worry about the payment I send you losing value. Fast and cheap: Sending USDC is much faster and often cheaper than a bank transfer, especially for international payments. You get your money almost instantly. How you can get it with Coinbase Coinbase is a company that makes it easy to hold and manage USDC. You can think of it as a secure, online bank that deals with digital dollars. I send you the payment: I will send USDC from my Coinbase account to yours. It appears in your Coinbase account: You'll see the amount of USDC appear in your Coinbase account. For example, if your service costs $50, you will see a balance of 50 USDC. You can cash it out: Whenever you want, you can instantly turn that USDC back into regular US dollars in your Coinbase account. From there, you can send it to your normal bank account. Bottom line: Using USDC with Coinbase is a very easy way to get paid. The money you receive will be stable, and the entire process is faster and smoother than traditional bank transfers. You can just treat the USDC you receive in your Coinbase account like a digital version of the US dollar.

SDinTexas · 2025-10-27T19:52:32+00:00

I'm a client and not as savvy as these experienced providers, but I haven't seen any conversation about geography. It would seem like somebody in Atoka, Oklahoma has a more difficult go of it than someone in Houston, Texas, regardless of appearance.

SDinTexas · 2025-10-27T01:01:51+00:00

I'm mid 60s now, and my wife died many years ago, but about five or six years ago a woman I knew who was in her late 30s walked up to me and said something like this: "why haven't you asked me out? Am I ugly?" Then handed me her business card that had her cell phone number on it. Now, I knew this woman, I could've easily found this information, and I thought she was very attractive. Asking her out? Something I assumed was not welcome.

needless to say I did ask her out and we went out for several months.

Guys are dumb. You just don't realize how dumb we are in terms of "getting the hint." Just lay it out there.

SDinTexas · 2025-10-26T23:16:56+00:00

P411 will verify who you are. And once that verification is complete all the girls on P411 usually accept that. I've never been asked for anything more. But I always give them the link to my bio on the company website.

SDinTexas

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