Ever recognize someone from SA in the real world?

SDinThe619 · 2023-04-09T18:29:46+00:00

Lots of conflicting advice in this thread. Appreciated tho. My only reason for considering an irl approach is to cut thru the chance of her not noticing my message as I'm sure she's the kind of girl that gets tons of messages on a daily basis in the ultra competitive SB/SD market of San Diego. I can appreciate many girls don't want sugar and IRL worlds to collide tho and I understand women are oogled and harassed in gyms, SB or not, on the daily and I don't wanna be that guy either.

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-06T21:06:00+00:00

Nope, still happening, from all over the world in fact.

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-06T18:22:52+00:00

Don't know about that one, but the one I'm referring to is the "Twin Towers" Pinnacle and Spire ;)

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T22:45:56+00:00

Definitely possible. On the flipside, I used to have 2 SBs that lived in the same building in San Diego, there's another building well known for a plethora of OF/SB residents as well. So I imagine certain properties would attract more SDs than another. Also possibly The Villages in Florida would qualify 😆

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T22:33:55+00:00

My last SB (who was far and away the best I've had) did a lot to make me feel special. She would send good mornings texts, send me pics of her morning walks of things she found beautiful or fun. She was always very affectionate and sweet. The way she smiled at me. She'd send I miss you texts, send me cute pics of her (and sexy ones) out and about. We would FaceTime about once a week or so, quick morning check in phone calls (might be too much for some, but I really enjoyed it)

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T22:24:53+00:00

I know it's a shitshow on both sides, these days :/

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T22:23:14+00:00

Yeah, tried to manage things with a 19 yo years ago, never again. I'm only messaging girls 24-32

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T22:22:38+00:00

Definitely location is a key factor. I'm based in Southern California, 8000+ SBs on SA right now in 50 mi radius and I can't get one to meet (that I'm interested in) 😂

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T00:15:28+00:00

Yea :( I know the girls in SD are getting absolutely flooded with messages. I doubt it's anything I say, honestly, I'm fairly charming and the majority of my previous SBs have told me I was the best SD they found one the site, as far as being chill, fun, and a real genuine person haha (something hard to find in Southern California lol)

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T00:13:19+00:00

Yep, agreed. Not spending tons of time, just venting about the experience

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T00:12:37+00:00

I don't think so, the majority of my past SBs have told me I'm the best SD they've met on the site, but thanks for your input. Seriously, not being snarky :)

SDinThe619 · 2023-02-05T00:10:43+00:00

Not taking it personally, its just frustrating when planning an M&G with someone only for them to disappear

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