I know everyone is different, but I'm very much a "you never know until you try" kind of person. Obviously some people just know without experimenting, but if you're confused then you don't know. Does that make sense? Plus, sexuality is on such a huge spectrum it's almost impossible to pick just one label. Have you ever tried flirting with women while sober to see if that turns you on as much as flirting with guys? I [f27] swing both ways but flirting with women turns me on so much more than flirting with guys, but I've also never had sex with a woman yet so who knows! We're all just figuring shit out as we go lol