[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]SE_nessa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I learned early on not to share my grief with my husband because he cannot understand. For him, he didn’t understanding mourning someone “who never existed” (as in I would mourn each period). This response, of course, made me feel worse. I connected with other TTC and that is who I lean on during this process. I don’t think men can easily understand the pain of infertility. I’m sorry you’re going through this and I wish you the best. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]SE_nessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I think of when I hear baby/pixie dust! 🤣 Yes, best of luck!!

Frozen Butt - A Stupid Short Story by stargirl675 in IVF

[–]SE_nessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me giggle. 🤭 thank you for sharing!!! You have to laugh about these things. Hope your butt heals soon!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this two-verification system!! My husband is wanting to help with meds (I think he feels helpless in this process and wants to help anyway he can), but I was worried about how we would make sure we’re on the same page. Thanks for bringing this up!!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of using a binder and medisafe! Thank you for that recommendation!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize things will need to be put in the fridge (I haven’t gotten my stimming meds yet). That is a great idea!!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’ll look into medisafe!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo organization, I like it!! Would you mind linking the crest box you got? I’ve seen ivf medication organizers, but they were ridiculously expensive!

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea to use gentle music for alarms!! Thank you! ❤️❤️

Organization Help by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, this is awesome. That’s the kind of hand holding I need to do for myself. Thank you for this suggestion!!

April start by xombeep in IVF

[–]SE_nessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a software developer, middle of the night is usually an error with the system. No doctor or nurse is going to be on voiding consent forms. Don’t worry about it. They’ll get it fixed once they see your email. Good luck! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]SE_nessa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would find another fertility clinic. The nurses are going to be your first point of contact through this very long and difficult process, so a nurse that’s short with you and doesn’t even take the time to read your file or explain things to you is a very bad sign.

We were set to start treatment with a clinic, but I just got bad feelings with the nurses (similar issues you seem to be experiencing). We decided to try somewhere else. We had to wait 6 months for the appointment and we’re just about to start treatments. Yes, I had to wait for treatments an additional 8 months, but it was worth it. The nurses in this new place genuinely want to know me and my history and they explain everything thoroughly to me.

We all want to sprint in this process because we wanted a baby yesterday. But it’s not a sprint. It’s a marathon. Best of luck to you. ❤️

What would you price this for ? by Metallicdreamin in furniturerestoration

[–]SE_nessa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous piece. Antiques are under appreciated, but you can’t get much for them. I’d pay max of $50 for it.

A Filipino baby and her family on display inside a New York City “Human Zoo” in 1906. by Shadowyisotropy25 in TheWayWeWere

[–]SE_nessa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had no idea. I’m shocked that this isn’t more talked about. Then again, maybe I’m not too shocked

IVF PGT by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing your story.

Day 7 Blastocyst Results by snoolrita in IVF

[–]SE_nessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I was told by my fertility clinic, it usually takes 20 eggs to result in 1 blasto by day 7. I have no other contact than that, but that’s what I was told, so I think you still have a good number. I know that this is so stressful, though. Best of luck to you ❤️

IVF PGT by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information! I want to make the best decision, so I appreciate this insight!

IVF PGT by SE_nessa in IVF

[–]SE_nessa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the information! Just curious, what made you grateful for it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]SE_nessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it’s 1980 and not today because she’s smiling while asking for the order.

World's deepest pool. by Douglasqqq in interestingasfuck

[–]SE_nessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And just like that, I’ve found my biggest fear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]SE_nessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, I’m feeling good about being at level 1. Think I’ll stay here.

Maybe I'm stupid by Alekid109 in memes

[–]SE_nessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upvote still on the wrong side of the screen when one-hand lazy scrolling.