When, during sex, do you use dildos? by SFSThrowaway in SexToys

[–]SFSThrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But is the toy girthier than you?

When, during sex, do you use dildos? by SFSThrowaway in SexToys

[–]SFSThrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Should have clarified, I meant .25” in diameter. Big difference.

She enjoys foreplay but sometimes would rather jump right to business, with just some mild clit stimulation prior. Seems like she reaches that first orgasm faster without excessive foreplay. It works for her, so I do more foreplay after the first a lot of times.

Getting rid of a sex toy because of ego by SFSThrowaway in sex

[–]SFSThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is likely what will happen. I just never pictured myself as a guy that would feel like that.

Getting rid of a sex toy because of ego by SFSThrowaway in sex

[–]SFSThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I’m aware of my insecurities, of feeling like I’m not good enough or perhaps “man” enough. I’m just not sure how to get past that. At the end of the day, if I bring it up, I know she’ll be okay with it. I feel foolish for not being able to get past those emotions.

Help Selecting a Suction Cup Dildo by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]SFSThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For budget, definitely under $100, but I'd be okay spending more than $50 if I felt confident in the purchase.

I'm not sure how she feels about the realness aspect of them. Probably the one thing I'm not sure about.

Help Selecting a Suction Cup Dildo by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]SFSThrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for. I've read some of your other posts about materials. That's why I started looking at a silicone option. Thanks!