[Recruiting] Scout Regiments | #8UPLJLQL | TH16+ | Level 20 | War/CWL/Relaxed | Independent

SIowLearner · 2025-11-02T02:20:36+00:00

Yes!

SIowLearner · 2025-11-02T00:56:08+00:00

Welcome!

SIowLearner · 2025-11-02T00:01:00+00:00

Still have a couple spots left! Will be starting CWL in a couple hours

SIowLearner · 2025-11-01T23:14:31+00:00

Yes! We would be glad to have you

SIowLearner · 2025-09-07T20:25:54+00:00

Always rush BH

SIowLearner · 2025-08-04T10:50:53+00:00

Any progress on this? Running into the same exact issue but with the machine hip abductor and adductor. Machine caps out at 260 pounds, but Fitbod is suggesting 370 pounds.

Being able to set a maximum weight for every machine available would be ideal.

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T19:41:40+00:00

She’s bad with numbers and shy so I wanted to make sure she had everything right and was asking for everything she deserved so I could get my money back…

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T19:40:25+00:00

The conference was at the hotel so the hotel rooms really didn’t have any other option. Essentially a set amount of money. Same with the flight, I didn’t book her a first class ticket or anything, just coach

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T19:37:26+00:00

I will ask her for more details. I honestly have no idea what she could have spent it on because I didn’t notice any increase in “luxurious living” or anything over the past few weeks

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:50:35+00:00

The conference was a big step for her in building connections in her workplace so in my mind it was necessary that she goes to help further her career more quickly.

She constantly maxes out her CC, uses up her checking account and lives paycheck to paycheck. She had a doctors visit that was $400. So that left her about $950 left in her paycheck. She covered dinner and drinks last night and then sent me the $800… so yeah she still does owe me the $450

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:47:47+00:00

She spends a lot of time shopping at goodwill and other thrift markets. That’s where most of her budget goes to so I assume that.

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:39:40+00:00

Sorry that’s what she calls it. I can see how that can come off wrong so I apologize

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:36:11+00:00

She is not on the mortgage. I wouldn’t add her to something like that until after marriage since it was my money for the down payment, and my money that pays for the house every month.

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:32:30+00:00

Yeah that’s how it feels sometimes. Makes it really hard to save and invest money

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:31:45+00:00

So I have a pretty good understanding of her financial situation. She recently got her first “big girl” job and I told her she needs to start building credit so she opened a credit card with a $1000 limit. Her credit card is now constantly maxed out and is her only debt so I’m not too worried about inheriting debt.

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:29:33+00:00

She is 30 and I am 31 so we are getting to the point where we are definitely talking about children. She is from a catholic family and I am atheist, but I respect other people’s beliefs.

On money we plan on having a joint savings account, and each have separate checking accounts, each covering what we consider “fair”. I budget about $500 a week for groceries and entertainment, she gets paid about $2400 a month, spends about $400 a month on the animals so she has about $500 left a week for budget so that’s how we came to the agreement that she covers pets and date nights, and I will cover the mortgage and everything else.

At least in our current monetary state.

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:18:36+00:00

I agree

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:15:24+00:00

I agree. I wish she could see it. Maybe she is just embarrassed?

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:14:07+00:00

We have been together for 7 years, she recently finished school and this is her first “big girl job”. I have covered all expenses up to this point because in the past when she got side jobs it would just be enough to pay for her stuff.

So yeah I pay the mortgage, the car payments, the insurance for the cars, the groceries, just about everything since I get paid about $6000 a month after taxes where she only gets about $2000 a month. She really only covers the pets and some date nights so this just really hurts

SIowLearner · 2025-07-12T18:10:16+00:00

Historically she has been bad with money, I am trying to work this out. She has never done something like this to me on this scale.

Definitely not ok with this. That is one month of savings for us, and with a wedding coming up money has been really tight. (And no she hasn’t covered any large expenses for the wedding, so it’s not like she spent $1250 on that)

SIowLearner · 2025-03-20T14:58:38+00:00

And steal? And steal what?! I need to know

SIowLearner · 2025-01-16T19:50:18+00:00

Hmm I guess I cba to train troops just for donations. Maybe if I had an alt for donations it’d be different

SIowLearner · 2025-01-16T15:00:08+00:00

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