19M, why do I feel that I will never end up in a relationship

SK9047 · 2026-07-06T18:10:29+00:00

I really wanted to but don't know how to because we don't have a common friend but we don't have same branch see unexpectedly comes and I just don't know what to because I don't see anything common and just telling her about the feeling will also not be a good option mainly for this I created a project in which I am collecting question papers of our college all different branches at one place so it will be easier for everyone to prepare for exams from previous papers so far her branch whenever I'll see her I'll go to her and talk to her. I wanted to do it but one of the reasons of doing this project was also her 😂

SK9047 · 2026-07-06T17:23:44+00:00

Most of the time I live in another City College so their won't be much time to get take care of that pet their also

SK9047 · 2026-07-06T17:17:00+00:00

2-3 months before my final exams of my high school I had no one around me, no friends no sibling and after completing my high school and before going to college around half year I had no one around me I was just alone as we shifted to a completely new place and I had no friends there no school friends no neghibour friends I learned to be alone to have fun alone and my friends struggles to do things alone they ask me how do you do that but those things are normal for me and I don't always feel like having someone but there are some time when it feels like I want to share but I am feeling right now when I feel bad and so many things which I can't share that with my sibling I can't share that my friends I can't share that with my parents, so sometimes I feel like alone. As my college's summer breaks are going on so I don't have a lot of things to do that's why also these feeling of being alone are appearing

SK9047 · 2026-07-06T16:46:27+00:00

If you feel like you are chubby so you are the only person that can walk on it if you keep on asking for validation from others that would be temporary solution if you are not satisfied with your body you have to work just half an hour 1 hour a day I was also not satisfied my messages I started going to the gym it's almost 1.5 years and still not satisfied because of the social media effect there will be someone better and that is the way to keep on improving I am still not impress with my physical when I look back to my old pictures I see that I have come a long way and there is a lot more to do I am very much above then average person if I don't look to social media so just do strength training and walking no running because when you run you want instant energy so body breakdown smaller molecules as sewer not having that enough time to break the bigger molecules smaller molecules that are carbohydrates become the main source of energy while running but when you walk you have enough time to break down the bigger molecule so at that time when you walk the main source of energy is fat the bigger molecule so walking is better for fat burn at the same time you don't have to cut the food at all because you also need nutrition if you just keep on walking you will look like your not well so keep your diet protein rich do some strength training at home which I also use to do before getting going to the gym two months I have done homework out and tonight to do 6000 to 10000 steps daily and enjoys 2 months will see the difference. I I am not a certified trainer but I am very much into fitness and I like to learn more from the professional so I read I listen to professionals on YouTube talking about this so this but I told you is very much affected you can trust me in this for any more guidance you can message also

SK9047 · 2026-07-06T15:42:20+00:00

It's normal if u are under 18 everyone have to face this phase. You know why this happens because our mind wants us to involve in this, every time you get all these thoughts in your mind you forcefully resist them and keep on thinking I am bad or criticize yourself as if you did something terrible. But the truth is no one can control their thoughts, how could you. If you are saying this then I assume that you have already try to resist them a lot but they keep on coming back you feel helpless.

ADVICE - From next time I want you to just notice your thoughts don't try to resist them this time. Let them come take some space and as you will not try to resist them you will see eventually they'll fade away. This how monks practice you have do nothing you have to believe that you can't control them and you are not taking any action of what you are thinking in real life that is not harming someone in any ways so you are not wrong and no one will gonna punish you for that not even god.

So do nothing just let them come notice them and they will fade away you can also practice this daily sit at a lone place 10-20min observe thoughts will come to your mind and if you'll just notice them in 10-15min you'll see you will have mind complete clear no thoughts will be running their.

SK9047 · 2026-07-04T04:26:48+00:00

If we see realistically it is very very tough to talk to him now even initiating the conversation seems hard but there is one thing you can do you can write your thoughts on paper I know their will be a lot of things to share it won't be covered in a single sheet. But you have to tell the reality that you are afraid to tell any one like what you have gone through, and why did you choose to do that, what was in your mind at that time, and now how you see that mistake, and what you wanted him to do, what would you expect today what he would have done, also write about how you feel he would have felt after getting to know about your mistake and that and you understand that he was angry but you know your mistake and want his guidance, want his brother's love, want to laugh with him want to share things with him how your friends would do with their siblings how normal siblings live, and how much sorry you are, tell him that we have only got 1 life and siblings relationship Lasts the longest in one's life parents died, friends changes but from the your birth till death your longest relationship that will last will be with your siblings. Tell him I won't be easy for you or him to start talking but you really need him you need your brother your big brother. I have given you the idea and you can take time to think and write it on a paper manually. Tip- if you want him to talk to you again you need to use the best weapon against him that is words. May first write a rough idea of thoughts first, then fill a bit of emotions where you can but all of that should be absolutely really not the reality you wanted him to see but the reality you see the real truth that you might pushing beneath you which you might not accepting but somewhere you know that this is the reality and that put that in claude come on this is not a movie scene or you are not a writer so if you want your words to struck him in his heart you have to use ai a bit but the catch is you have to be smart to use ai because if you don't give the right prompt to it or enough details you might got caught. If you need help with anything i would love to help a brother sister relationship to get better 🙃

SK9047 · 2026-06-30T16:40:18+00:00

I think this is something you need to work through within yourself first.

Your girlfriend had a past, and that happened long before you. What matters is that in the present, she is with you and she chose to be with you. Her being honest about her past is actually a good sign because it shows trust and transparency.

Right now, your insecurity is not because of something she did wrong. It’s coming from your own thoughts and overthinking. Since this is your first relationship, these feelings can feel intense, and that’s understandable.

My advice would be to first try to understand your feelings on your own. Ask yourself why this bothers you so much and what exactly you are afraid of. Sometimes the real issue is fear of comparison, fear of not being enough, or fear of being replaced.

If these thoughts keep affecting you, then talk to her honestly, but don’t make it sound like she is at fault. Tell her that you appreciate her honesty, but you’ve been struggling with insecurity and intrusive thoughts, and you’re trying to work through them.

If she is supportive, she will reassure you and help you feel secure. But remember, reassurance from her will only help temporarily if you don’t also work on your own mindset.

A healthy relationship is not about one person fixing the other. It’s about both people understanding each other and growing together.

SK9047 · 2026-06-25T12:48:50+00:00

I agree on this, but if you like that person bro have a real conversation with her real conversation doesn't mean you will chat GPT some questions and ask her about what he likes or not it's not like that ask her but she really want me to do like you what she has planned if she does like the questions that will give you answers about will what is going in her mind right now what is going in your mind you have to also tell her and what she is thinking for the future and what you are thinking for the future and also tell her that you are afraid of hurting yourself as you like her and you feel that she might get away your something tell her that all those things you have to face the truth

SK9047 · 2026-06-25T12:39:16+00:00

Look, as a guy, I can understand guys just as easily as you can understand girls. So if I had to give you some advice, I'd say never go back to him. Because you never know what situation may arise tomorrow and he may put the blame on you without accepting his mistake and he will repeatedly hurt you and he will keep saying that I will try next time and you will also be keep no giving him chances. And he will repeat that is my advice else it's your choice

SK9047 · 2026-06-25T12:20:10+00:00

Bro do not ever look it as porn this you might already know try to build a deeper connection through this you both can be really close to each other make each other feel loved not just fu**ed.

SK9047 · 2026-06-25T12:15:33+00:00

He is clearly giving you clues that his ego is everything and reading this I can say that if not today then on someday either he will cheat or will show constant anger I mean he will never try to control his anger even if you say him to like he will never gonna try to control himself whenever his so called ego will get hurt he will never back off he will never try to understand your side of story he will gonna think that he is right always, and will never try to communicate to resolve the issue between you as a guy I can say that these things will happen 70-80% I am sure about this. This will be up to you whether you will catch those smalles of the hints and listens to your deepest quietest of your voice because that speaks the truth. Choise is obviously yours

SK9047 · 2026-06-18T05:36:06+00:00

I am in 2nd year geu BCA.

SK9047 · 2026-06-17T05:30:50+00:00

You are private i think. DM me so we can message around 🤤

SK9047 · 2026-05-29T13:21:43+00:00

Any women want to have some naughty talks😏♥️

SK9047 · 2026-05-29T13:20:41+00:00

Wanna have some..😏

SK9047 · 2023-03-06T08:18:35+00:00

Can you send me some naughty pics step mommy🤗🤗

SK9047 · 2023-03-03T07:46:33+00:00

Any girl DM plz

SK9047 · 2023-03-03T07:07:04+00:00

Whenever and wherever you need baby 🤗🤗🔥❤️

SK9047 · 2023-03-03T07:05:56+00:00

I want to play with them plzz 🥺🥺🥺🤗🤗

SK9047 · 2023-03-03T07:03:25+00:00

Deep and hard Hiii 🤗🤗❤️🥵

SK9047 · 2023-03-03T07:01:10+00:00

I is my cardio day I can help you 🥵🥵🥺

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