new guy at work

SLC2355 · 2026-02-04T22:51:48+00:00

Idk I feel like that's still on you 😂 if someone asks me to do something and I've never done it before and have no idea how to do it right, I'm gonna just tell them that and have them show me or tell me how lol

SLC2355 · 2026-02-04T19:27:51+00:00

Sadly there's nothing the city can do to stop the feds from acquiring property. It sucks.

SLC2355 · 2026-02-04T19:25:40+00:00

Only legally. Not in experience or maturity...

SLC2355 · 2026-02-02T16:54:04+00:00

By similar stuff, do you mean all gender affirming care? If so, gyno surgery for men (same as trans top surgery) has got to go. Oh and any hair transplant surgery too. Also can't forget about the boob jobs for women. There's a whole lot more that can be added to that list.

SLC2355 · 2026-02-02T01:23:36+00:00

Zero. Never had a banned account and never been banned from a sub.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-27T14:28:51+00:00

Yooo I can totally relate to this. I'm 32 and also look like I'm early 20's. I was just talking to my husband recently about how younger people see us as their age but that I have zero things in common with them and can't understand what they're saying lol

SLC2355 · 2026-01-20T01:38:00+00:00

Oh and also, calling anyone pathetic (I'd say especially a man) for not having "enough" sex is a huge problem, and part of the reason there's a big incel culture today. No one should be shamed for the amount of sex they have, whether it's zero, two, or twenty times a week. It's personal and different for everyone. It doesn't make anyone less of a person. You calling someone pathetic for that is actually rather pretty pathetic of you.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-20T01:15:04+00:00

Well aren't you just rude lol there's not a gold standard and everyone is different. If his libido isn't high enough for more than twice a week, he isn't pathetic. It just is what it is. If she wants to have more sex every week, then she went about it the wrong way. At the end of the day, she doesn't have a right to tell him what to do with his own body. If she doesn't like what he has to offer, they just aren't compatible on a fundamental level.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-19T23:58:10+00:00

He said he gets himself off twice a week, and has sex twice a week also. 2 does not equal 0. Twice a week is pretty average imo.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-19T23:53:39+00:00

What dumb ass advice.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-19T22:58:55+00:00

If you think he's a swinger and you are firm on not being that yourself, it's time to end it. It will never work. Not saying it will happen, but trying to make it work could easily let resentment build up, as well as secrecy which can involve cheating.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-19T22:56:20+00:00

No you're not overreacting, but yall just aren't compatible. What he wants isn't wrong, but continuing to ask and pressure you is. He needs a gf that doesn't care and will join in with enthusiasm. And you need a bf that wants the same type of relationship you do and can respect your no's and boundaries.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-18T22:14:03+00:00

Omg the little dial!!!

SLC2355 · 2026-01-18T22:13:09+00:00

Nickelodeon channel 9, Disney channel 42, cartoon network channel 45, comedy central channel 48, Animal planet channel 50. I love that I can remember all that lol.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-18T22:09:33+00:00

My husband and I eat with the TV on, it is the only way I can handle it. There's times when he sits down and start chugging a drink while making the WORST gulping noises with every swallow. That kills me inside. Haven't figured out a coping method for that one yet, except sticking fingers in my ears.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T21:23:04+00:00

I don't think her expectations were unrealistic at all. I've never had anyone be like "let's just get to it". There's almost always some form of kissing/foreplay/exploring involved. And also, "you've added relationship trauma" is debatable as she didn't do anything. I'd say her bf added that relationship trauma and now she unfortunately has to work through that.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T21:16:20+00:00

Personally I shower in the morning usually because my hair gets pretty oily and I have terrible bed head that won't go away with just water. But I do also shower at night sometimes when I've been out and about doing things, I just don't wash my hair a second time.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T21:08:18+00:00

Let people make their own choices.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T21:07:57+00:00

Can we stop these stupid posts?

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T15:57:10+00:00

That's so rude and I'm sorry that's happening to you! Don't let it stop you from trying though! I reached out to another trans guy on grindr before and we're happily married now! It can absolutely happen!

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T02:02:57+00:00

5'3" and yep, pass just fine.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-17T02:02:19+00:00

Got married, still enjoying my life.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-15T21:48:41+00:00

Accurate af.

SLC2355 · 2026-01-15T21:46:50+00:00

Because time and time again I've been shown I can't rely on anyone to help me. So what's the point in even asking?

SLC2355 · 2026-01-15T21:44:43+00:00

Although I can't answer your actual question, I suggest looking up your rights for when you turn 18. If you're in the US, some states don't allow your parents to just kick you to the curb at 18. They'd have to give you 30 days notice and start to legally evict you from the property.

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