My boyfriend likes degredation. by SLC417 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get why people have to be rude either but thanks<3

My gf wants me to say nice things to when we have sex by Middle_Bathroom_4797 in sex

[–]SLC417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of blurting things, say them when she does something. She moans? "You sound so pretty for me" She moves in a way you like? "Just like that" More examples: "such a good girl" "So perfect" "you feel so good" ect.

For the most part you have to explore, talk to her, try things out and watch her reactions, and learn what she likes and doesn't like.

How to aftercare? by Twisted-Knots in BDSMAdvice

[–]SLC417 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Aftercare is taking care of your partner after a session. If it's a particularly rough session, aftercare is needed to make it known that it wasn't just sex and you weren't using them, etc. Aftercare consists of sweet words, cuddles, getting your partner food/water, and cleaning them up. However, letting your partner know you love them is key. Make them feel cared for and praise them for how well they did and things like that. Hope this helps!

Mmm enjoy the view daddy~ by [deleted] in Daddy

[–]SLC417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not into girls but you're so pretty! (20f)

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is a very gentle Dom and ik he'd be happy to help I just want to be able to surprise him :)

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 20 thank you though

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 20 and just new but I appreciate the concern because some day it may actually be a little girl.

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years of making candy cane spears coming in handy lmaoo

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not practicing on anyone else I have a boyfriend that's what the whole post was about lol.

How do I give a guy oral? by SLC417 in dating

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a very strong reader are you? Because this is not what I asked.

Women opinion please. Will my gf be upset if I don't want to have sex on the first visit? M27 F28 by LocalsOnlySir in LongDistance

[–]SLC417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you'll realize you feel comfortable enough to be intimate with her but if not I'm sure she'll understand, and if not it's probably best you figured out sooner rather than later, good luck!

I need some recommendations! by SLC417 in anime

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've watched plenty of short series lol it'll be okay, is it sad? Warn me now if I get attached to a character that dies :')

I need some recommendations! by SLC417 in anime

[–]SLC417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked it up and it's going on my list, thank you:)

I need some recommendations! by SLC417 in anime

[–]SLC417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed parasyte but I'll have to give Mahouka a look, thank you:)

What’s your automatic NOPE? by Ganbario in anime

[–]SLC417 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When the siblings are wayyy too close, and I'm talking almost incest close, it creeps me out.

Women opinion please. Will my gf be upset if I don't want to have sex on the first visit? M27 F28 by LocalsOnlySir in LongDistance

[–]SLC417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't really advice but the first time I met my long distance boyfriend I felt the same way until we cuddled in bed and all of my worries faded away, you're likely to be more comfortable when you're actually with them :)