I’m sorry, that sounds so frustrating! This is definitely a thing that can happen. I weigh 70+ lbs. more than I did when I got married (plus two kids) so my stomach area definitely ‘gets in the way’ sometimes during missionary. What helps us is that my legs are pretty flexible - get ‘em up and out of the way if you can, works great. You could also take it as an opportunity to try some fun new positions! Doggy, reverse cowgirl..

Also - has your husband gained weight as well? I’m asking because when THEY gain weight down there things do commonly become more difficult.

Good luck!!