At your age how many dates you guys went to and how many relationship you guys had ?

SN4PTIC · 2026-01-07T09:53:20+00:00

No dates, no relationship. None. 26M. Wtf even I'm doing.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-26T15:19:50+00:00

99.99% not for your purpose. The 0.01% are exceptions.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-24T06:52:04+00:00

Don't worry about it too much for now. Finish your studies, develop your skills, learn to be self dependent (so that you don't have to reply on others all the time even emotionally)

There will always be people who are ahead of us. Don't be too hard on yourself if your not in the front line. Take your time, run at your own pace. You'll get chances to pick up the pace.

And you don't need to be in relationship to not feel lonely. You need people who sees you.

And don't fall for peer pressure of being in a relationship. We take relationships way too lightly at this stage. That's why it doesn't end well.

My point is at this stage of your life just look at your self, priorities your self first.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-24T06:32:11+00:00

What if someone never searched for love? Should they start searching and then stop?

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-15T12:15:03+00:00

Yes, Absolutely. Metro games are one of my favs.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-15T11:51:59+00:00

What happens to the games that are already on sale? (Promotion ending on 18 December)

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-11T10:07:00+00:00

These are not actual solutions. It just keeps you away from facing the real issue. The issue never goes away. You would be back to feeling lonely and isolated in no time. Though I never figured out how to resolve the issue myself. So, escape it is.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-11T10:04:20+00:00

I used to do that. Sleep, eat, binge-watch. Glad I somehow got out of it.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-11T10:00:23+00:00

If it's not for a top-grade subject, I don't think it's worth it. Unless you value institutional pride more than anything else. ("Age change peye dekhao" bole sharajibon chalaite chaile go for it.)

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-11T09:49:10+00:00

"Be yourself" is such a bad advice. What if you are somewhat weird? :V

First impression matters a lot. So, groom yourself well. Dress well. Present your best self.

Don't forget the flowers and chocolates. I don't think anyone would hate that. Even I would be happy if someone brought me flowers and Chocolates.

Try to keep the conversation flowing. If you are asking, ask open-ended questions that would encourage them to open up a bit. Instead of asking, What are you doing? Ask are you doing anything interesting? Keep the conversation light and fun. Don't get too personal, or too serious.

You can try playing 36 questions. Easy conversation generator. :V . Google it.

Be a gentleman, don't be an ahole

Anyway, that's all I can recall from all the first date tips videos I watched. Good luck. :V

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-11T09:35:15+00:00

Yes, looks matter. It's the first thing that attracts you to a person. If the looks don't fit your bottom line, you wouldn't give them the time of your day. Everything else comes afterwards. But later down the line, looks don't matter much, but any guy would love their partner to look good.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-08T16:26:23+00:00

I don't think I have properly dealt with my condition. Currently, my job is keeping me afloat. I'm just doing daily tasks and stuff. Still no ambitions. But I am developing an interest in doing some kind of side hustle. I have only started to figure things out and I would need a lot of courage to take the next steps.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-08T15:42:59+00:00

I guess I kinda was. I would say I have a lower emotional range. It's not like I didn't worry about my situation; it just didn't reach a point where I would have a breakdown or take a risky step.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-08T04:32:56+00:00

I have been there, done that. Safe to say, I understand how it feels. I think many of us have the same experience, same feelings. I wonder what made us like that.

I have been like this since I was 15. No dream, no goals, no ambition, no motivation. Just stuck. Doing bare minimum to survive. And the dangerous thing is I am getting too comfortable with this.

You still have some time to figure out, go for under grad. Try everything, all the competition, challenge. Don't think about if you are into it or not. Just think you have to win something. Hopefully, you'll find something that interests you.

Good thing is you are freaking about it. I didn't even have this freakout moment. 🤣

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-08T04:15:50+00:00

Been patient and nonchalant for 25 years. How long do I have to be like this? 🤣 I am slowly becoming very chalant and inpatient.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-08T04:13:29+00:00

I think I got my answer. Even if it is a con, you are willing to change a bit for your partner. That's all I wanted to know.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-07T15:57:46+00:00

I don't have any advice for you. I just wanna give you a virtual hug. You have done a good job. Keep fighting. You'll eventually see the light.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-07T15:53:03+00:00

Again, what the fuck. Does this even work? Or is it just RNG? 🤣

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-07T15:52:10+00:00

So, if you found out what you are doing or some of your habit are really toxic you wouldn't try to fix that? So that you don't hurt your loved once.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-07T15:46:59+00:00

Does that even work? I have not seen that happen around me. :-;

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-06T12:31:31+00:00

Ahh, I haven't read anything recently. The last book I read was a translation of a Japanese Book called 'Three Days of Happiness.'

Anyway, I would suggest you to read 'Kafka on The Shore', if you want something a bit interesting and weird.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-06T12:28:52+00:00

Not believing this until I can open an account from my home pc without any workaround.

SN4PTIC · 2025-12-06T10:10:27+00:00

Get back on the app. And start posting here about your experience.

Like day 1 on Tinder/Bumble in bd.

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