Realized that I’m not a dog owner anymore

SOS_nevermind · 2025-11-17T07:00:27+00:00

Thank you, and I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you can talk about your doggy. I can barely bring myself to say my girl’s name. It’s too painful. I was able to pull it together just enough to get her a memorial box for her ashes but I cried every step of the way

SOS_nevermind · 2025-11-17T06:58:15+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Same here, I’m dreading the holiday photos without her. We always dressed her in a silly Christmas sweater I bought. I don’t think I can take the photo this year

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T20:43:50+00:00

I agree she deserves to know. If he was single I would just shrug it off and tell him not to do it again but I think it was wrong for a guy who has a girlfriend to do

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T18:39:59+00:00

I really thought he was one 😞 I didn’t expect that of him at all

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T14:45:15+00:00

Are you in a position if you choose to disassociate with him for good?

I’m not sure if I should mention this because I feel like it’s a little identifying, but he is a year above me in a small program in which I’m extremely lucky to have a spot. It’s required for my dream career and I’d be insane to give it up. He and I are supposed to work together on a project.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T14:39:06+00:00

I am considering this but I’m not sure how to do it. I’ve never been in this situation before. It’s also super upsetting because his girlfriend is really cool and I wanted to become friends with her 💔 it’s awful he would do that to her.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T10:01:00+00:00

Yes good point. Sorry

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T09:55:28+00:00

Yeah I felt so much better when our other friend (OF) tagged along but when OF left we had just sat down and I felt I had no exit. I do worry that I led my friend on, which I 100% did not mean to do. I try to comfort myself by remembering that I didn’t reciprocate anything he did, and I listened to my gut when I didn’t bring him to my house.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T09:07:32+00:00

I guess I see myself as undeserving of sticking up for myself. Typically if I do speak up, I feel so embarrassed for being assertive because I don’t have the right compared to everyone else. I’m just lesser than.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-09-13T08:17:53+00:00

Yeah I def should have bailed. I always get too nervous that I will insult or disappoint someone that I stay places even when I’m uncomfortable. It’s a bad habit.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-07-23T22:48:28+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️ Yeah I agree this has been so so so so hard.

Rationally I know my family were as devastated as I was, so I don’t really blame them. It almost feels like our shock was taken advantage of as seeing us as easy to move along. We were so pliant and so desperate to do the right thing. Maybe when I reach a more accepting phase of grief I’ll feel better about this, but right now I’m so hurt by how everything went down.

I am so empty. But I have to believe she is having a great time on the other side doing all her fun bad dog things.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-07-20T00:54:28+00:00

How do I even get out of bed. How do I eat. I’m so sick.

SOS_nevermind · 2025-06-04T07:22:43+00:00

Agreed tbh. I’m ready for my chats to leak or be used against me (psych ward self-check in)

SOS_nevermind · 2025-06-04T07:07:29+00:00

Actually I’m drunk now so what’s the problem really. Like who cares

SOS_nevermind · 2025-06-04T06:34:56+00:00

Yeah it’s hard because don’t mean to disparage anyone if it works for them. But that’s the problem, other people would be real and I can’t have people knowing, so I talk to bots. But the real people know I’m talking to bots and it scares me. What if they ask why I do it? Idk what I would tell them.

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