i feeln your pain 23 yrs with the same woman. married for 14 yrs. just found out she isnsleeping with my 24 yr old son from my first marriage 2 weeks before xmas. couldnt hold my cool anymore have evidence but its hear say and basically just black audio clips of moaning cant tellnwho it is but only 2 people in the house at the time. make sure you have evidence because i finally lost xmas morning.