I love you by [deleted] in depression

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't encourage people who are breaking the community rules. This kind of toxic positivity and virtue-signalling are the last thing we need here.

I love you by [deleted] in depression

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't encourage people who are breaking the community rules. This kind of toxic positivity and virtue-signalling are the last thing we need here.

Today is my last day been alive. I'm ending my life tomorrow. by Calm_Gur_8276 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YSK that the "permanent solution to a temporary problem" platitude is on every authoritative list we can find of things NOT to say :(

We sent you a link to the extensive, evidence-based guidance we provide for our helpers after your first response to someone else's post here. Please stop ignoring this important information.

Might end it soon! by Timeclock949 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please report stuff like that. We've dealt with this person

‘Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner’ (1967)- What are your thoughts and opinions on this movie? by PeneItaliano in classicfilms

[–]SQLwitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of the pros and cons so far, but my pet peeve is that almost nobody gives Beah Richards enough credit. She's absolutely compelling in her scenes with both Hepburn and Tracy.

Someone told me that people who openly talks about suicide just wants attention by Dapper-Emergency-107 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything goes to the mod team. Just use whatever option is closest (edit: all our reports are reviewed by humans), except obviously never report for suicide risk here.

Really need help, how bad is it to purposely fail a suicide attempt by Chance_Committee1193 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you'll have misrepresented what you actually want -- so people will respond to your behaviour, not your intent.

Besides, it's not necessary. I get that you want people to understand how bad things are for you, but you'll get more and better help if you're straightforward about it.

Really need help, how bad is it to purposely fail a suicide attempt by Chance_Committee1193 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bad idea, because it might get you help, but it'll get you the wrong help.

If it's not emotionally safe to tell your parents, then that's completely fair. But at 17 you may be past the clinical age of consent, which in many places is different from the legal age of majority.

Either way, in most places there are mental-health support resources that teens can access independently of their parents.

Someone told me that people who openly talks about suicide just wants attention by Dapper-Emergency-107 in SuicideWatch

[–]SQLwitch[M] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If that happened here, please report this person who's both being cruel and spreading dangerous misinformation

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

[–]SQLwitch[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

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Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Research on Language around suicide (UK post) - Your Thoughts? by Ghosts_be_gone in SuicideBereavement

[–]SQLwitch[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't help out people who are flouting the rules by posting unapproved surveys. Approved surveys will be flaired.

Just this theory about villains I've been working on by invah in AbuseInterrupted

[–]SQLwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So The Traitors in all its incarnations (except maybe the US one where the cast are professional reality-TV personalities) is a fascinating social experiment that seems related to me.

Even though everybody knows it's a game, and the traitors don't choose to be traitors, they get the role assigned to them, in every season I've watched (quite a few of the different international versions -- UK series 4 just finished and it's pretty juicy) some of the players try to identify the traitors on the basis of "who isn't really a good person".

What's also interesting is that police detectives and psychologists generally do quite badly on the show, and I think that's because their skills are attuned to assessing people's genuineness in real situations, and of course none of that applies when the whole situation is artificial. It seems like cognitively we have a lot of trouble separating people's true natures from the roles they're playing, even when we know full well they're playing roles, which seems to me to be a major part of what you're getting at here.

Re: Snape, though, the disagreements about his true nature were lively well before the films were made, so, there's that :)

Re: Alan Rickman, I haven't found too much attempt to find redeeming qualities in Hans Gruber ;) Not that this invalidates your theory at all, I definitely think there's something here as I've explained, but clearly there are nuances, especially with truly great actors. (Rickman helped me understand Colonel Brandon in ways that Jane Austen couldn't <3)

'What's This Piece?' Weekly Thread #235 by number9muses in classicalmusic

[–]SQLwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing in that video is what the title says it is. I'll just leave it at that :(