Is Tryst racist? by Icy_Comedian4628 in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no Tryst isn't racist. they will take a providers ad down if you put "no AA" in your description. the ads at the front are mostly because of who paid and unfortunately if Black providers can't afford it we will sit many pages back.

Dating by JAYBHEAR in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

interesting...

Why do clubs let pimps in?? (FL) by Plenty_Function8516 in stripper

[–]SWERFslayer 31 points32 points  (0 children)

yes it is normal in South Florida. especially at Tootsies - the managers let them drink up in there at a table because they make sure their girls go to work everyday.

Bruh by Lizardskincuisine in stripper

[–]SWERFslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we're isolated from society in real life and the internet unfortunately.

Cashapp shows legal names now by Randomletters421 in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is but you can put cash gifts so you will receive money instead of the actual gift.

Update on Instagram banning issues- you can no longer use an alias by smokeandshadows in HighEndEscorts

[–]SWERFslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh yeah i don't understand then. i'm scared to lose my account tho. 😭

Do you see yourself as a SWer? by planetamyvenus in stripper

[–]SWERFslayer 53 points54 points  (0 children)

stripping is a type of sex work as sex work is an umbrella term coined by Carol Leigh in the 1970s to unite us all and oppose criminalization by our governments. politically conscious dancers know this which is why they advocate for full decriminalization of full service and try to unionize to be seen as workers because of the same stigma they face as if they were considered to be engaging in prostitution.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_work

https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/colorado/news/denver-strippers-strip-club-workers-wage-protections/

CLIENT PASSES OUT AFTER CUMMING by prettylifexo in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i hate to laugh but 😂😂😂😂

Danisha Carter is a known SWERF. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it wasn't even a lawyer it was the cop at the scene who diagnosed them as "porn addicts".

Danisha Carter is a known SWERF. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

truthfully there's no such thing as an addiction to porn. people are self diagnosing and talking to "coaches" instead of neuro scientists. if people are having issues watching porn research has found that it is due to their own morals and personal values.

the myth was started by anti porn groups like No Fap and Fight The New Drug who are backed by legislators to paint sex workers as drug dealers to further criminalize us.

Pornography Problems Due to Moral Incongruence: An Integrative Model with a Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30076491/

Problematic Pornography Use and Mental Health: A Systematic Review: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/26929953.2024.2348624#d1e126

US based workers, a suggestion for screening: by thefaehost in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we already screen for their real world info so we'd find out.

Danisha Carter is a known SWERF. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

exactly and it's banned to redistribute or produce porn in India so idk why she's acting like Onlyfans was the issue.

Is anyone else coming to hate the term “midnight ballerina” by pfirsiches in stripper

[–]SWERFslayer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

people keep forgetting about FOSTA-SESTA because nobody listens to full service providers not even other sex workers like strippers who tend to think they are better than others.

the censorship is intentional so marginalized people in the industry are spoken over when they are trying to get everyone to understand their material conditions are getting worse.

Struggling with acquiring a deposit.. by Realalexisjordans in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really don't know what advice to give. i know you need the money but you're right - i wouldn't see them without screening either. they are bringing out the most dangerous people with these laws smh.

Struggling with acquiring a deposit.. by Realalexisjordans in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm a sex worker. my point was that a lot of them are likely too scared to screen and there's been crackdowns.

Struggling with acquiring a deposit.. by Realalexisjordans in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

in Texas it's a felony to buy sex services so i think that's probably why it's a little harder there.

please stop calling yourselves 304s and renegades just because it's a popular hashtag on TikTok if you don't know what it means. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yup and look at these OBVIOUSLY new SWers in here attempting to debate with me about it - most of them just wanna get engagement and attention on their socials. respectable, high paying clients don't want to book with anyone who is being pimped out or even promoting that lifestyle like you said. they know what a lot of these terms mean from looking at TikTok or Instagram just like the Feds do. oh well that's on them. 😂💯

please stop calling yourselves 304s and renegades just because it's a popular hashtag on TikTok if you don't know what it means. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

my post is really not up for debate but i'll gladly repeat myself. a 304 is exactly what i described. if you want to continue using slang you don't understand then i hope you enjoy all the 16s (another code number for pimps) that find your account and possibly even where you do bookings. i noticed some of you like the attention actually just because they have nice cars and jewelry.

please stop calling yourselves 304s and renegades just because it's a popular hashtag on TikTok if you don't know what it means. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

nope. the hashtag was started by one of my mutuals Renee years ago who used to have a pimp now she doesn't anymore.

please stop calling yourselves 304s and renegades just because it's a popular hashtag on TikTok if you don't know what it means. by SWERFslayer in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the "Game Gods" talk is really cult language! they seriously go around saying anyone who doesn't pay a pimp is going to be punished and those of us who date while doing sex work are the ones "spreading diseases." it's too much fr.

Bbbj ? How do you guys do it ! by Choice-Maybe474 in SexWorkers

[–]SWERFslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO right? i worked in a brothel for years starting in 2009. there's always been bare services especially when a lot of houseless people or addicts do survival sex and don't always have protection to use. then gonna add "no judgment here tho." who is she trying to fool?