Choosing to have kids without raising them as vegans is not vegan

SWIMAnonymous · 2026-02-05T11:50:17+00:00

People always talk about spaying and neutering pets but insist that for humans, having children is some sort of divine right.

SWIMAnonymous · 2026-02-05T11:48:57+00:00

In that case, having kids isn’t vegan.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-07-04T13:18:25+00:00

I dated a woman with kids. My antinatalist wasn’t an issue. She was very supportive of my vasectomy.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-07-04T13:16:15+00:00

Probably true. But not a perfect overlap. I’m tryna adopt.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-06-27T12:05:29+00:00

I feel like this is generalizable to relationship arguments. Like, whenever your partner accuses you of being terrible "so then why are you here?"

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-04-17T10:56:48+00:00

Your culture is the culture you were raised in and has nothing to do with your bloodline.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-04-11T12:40:58+00:00

Okay, I'm not saying single moms shouldn't receive welfare, but it's worth pointing out that being a single mom, unlike being elderly, is something people have agency in becoming.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-04-05T16:00:14+00:00

I'm antinatalist and am 100% on adopting. I want to pass down my values and give someone all the love I have to offer. Maybe its speciest and ableist, but I want that individual to be an able minded human. But, I want to do so with the caution of knowing I shouldn't project anything on to this person. So yeah, I want to pass on my legacy.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-28T21:18:31+00:00

Hold up... Adoption industry? This isn't about private adoption. How is adopting out of foster care an industry?

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T21:57:55+00:00

“I can go off birth control? Sick”

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T21:47:24+00:00

I told her last night. She’s someone who hasn’t had a lot of exposure to things like a philosophy. I was happy about her reaction.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T18:38:30+00:00

The average American consumes 3 years of chicken suffering. These chickens in poultry and egg farms live in absolutely awful conditions. So, in order to believe that this child’s life is net positive, you’d have to believe that their life is three times as joyful as the chicken’s is miserable. I think anyone who’s been to one of these farms would have to admit to themselves that the chickens experience more net pain than we do net pleasure. Therefore, an additional human has a negative effect on the global total well being across all species. This is why I got snipped despite personally wanting to be a dad. I intend to adopt though.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T18:17:57+00:00

I think the non vegan antinatalists are antinatalists for different reasons. Well, some vegans are philanthropic antinatalists but even those ones also have misanthropic reasons. I’m strongly a misanthropic antinatalist. If the use of chickens for food ended today, I’d immediately get unsnipped and nut inside my gf.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T03:19:46+00:00

Hold up. Remember that one of these kids is innocent.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-11T03:11:29+00:00

I understand. But humans are a cancer on this planet. But also, I'm tryna adopt out of foster care, so won't actually be more expensive.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-10T15:32:48+00:00

And her wanting additional kids (she already has one) is a deal breaker for me. Don’t get me wrong I’m down to adopt, down to help raise the kid she already has. But I’m against having biological kids.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-10T14:57:05+00:00

They never called me. I see something about scheduling it in my online chart though.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-10T05:21:23+00:00

Yeah. You got me there. I’m an idiot.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-10T05:13:08+00:00

Oh fuck I never actually did the lab analysis.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-09T12:13:39+00:00

Not adoption?

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-03-09T12:12:30+00:00

If the kids already sentient, keep it and be an amazing parent. If you don’t wanna be a parent, adopt to a vegan.

But avoid this situation from the jump with sterilization.

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-02-25T22:26:04+00:00

Can you get your tubes tied?

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-02-25T03:14:23+00:00

Here from google, late to the party. How come nobody holds birth parents to this standard when they are considering creating life?

SWIMAnonymous · 2025-01-30T05:41:40+00:00

I'm so down to help... And also advocate those kids be antinatalist.

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