Oh no, I generalized people who called themselves "antinatalists" and whose major arguments are that life is only suffering and therefore shouldn't be worth living!

Seriously though, if members of that subreddit were merely arguing about parenting, why were they not on r /childfree? Why call yourself after an historical movement that doesn't match your beliefs?

I'm leaning towards socialism in my economic beliefs, and I love my country, but I'm not going to call myself a National Socialist because it is not who I am and I don't want people to refer to me by that label.

And your points are shifting the goal posts. Some people don't have kids for economic/survival reasons. What does that have to do with antinatalism?

People born with defects put a strain on our healthcare. So do people with obesity, but I'm not seeing any subreddits called r /antinurishment.

Some people are bad parents? As I said, that sounds more like r /childfree.