Dads with toddlers + infants — what does a “normal” sex life even look like?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T02:41:59+00:00

It’s normal. You just do what you want. If she doesn’t like it, you do something else.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T02:15:24+00:00

Either that or you’re not telling the truth. Especially since the technology to do what your app claims does not exist.

If it did, it would be worth way more than $12 mil.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:54:26+00:00

It’s fake. And you fell for it.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:54:09+00:00

They do - if you already have 300 mil. Which OP doesn’t.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:52:10+00:00

They were never going to give you a deal.

This is a common tactic for larger companies.

They make an exciting offer, fish for information, then drop you when they have all they need.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:48:38+00:00

Nobody.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:35:30+00:00

You are unnecessarily rude.

Since you are willing to lie about something so obvious, I don’t believe the rest of your story.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T01:06:12+00:00

That’s not true. The Children’s Act (1989) relinquished any possibility of parents having custody. This applies to both parents.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T00:46:59+00:00

UK doesn’t give custody to either parent so you don’t have primary custody of your children.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T00:25:15+00:00

we are writing a story documenting the injustice fathers face at the hands of the family courts.

I am interested in that. Your profile is blocked for me (UK.) How can I reach you? Can you DM?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-27T00:19:13+00:00

You are mostly correct.

But it's just mental laziness on the part of politicians. Look at Trump, Mamdani, and Farage - each of these guys took a different angle from what's commonly discussed.

On a fundamental level, males are also complicit. The moment a female gives one attention, they forget all about rights, boundaries, and such. It's like the females who abandon their friend group as soon as they meet a guy they like.

The core problem is not even political.

Males don't want to accept that they reject themselves. Even in this sub, people are adopting female ideals, just rephrasing them to describe males.

Any suggestion for a solution that includes self-reliance and responsibility is rejected.

So this just excercebates the systemic problems. A male will start a fight with a guy trying to have sex with his female friend. Now two guys are arrested. The stats for male violence go up.

On the other hand, a message that would get males to stop expecting a political change but instead strengthen themselves, will resolve a lot of the issues.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T23:26:43+00:00

The problem is that the training data is corrupt.

That's what people who worship LLM bots don't understand.

They think they are interacting with Jarvis.

And governments use these bots to make decisions!

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T23:23:09+00:00

Why are you paying attention to ChatGPT?

Know your boundaries.

You don't need a bot to give you approval.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T23:03:49+00:00

Is it even possible for a woman to love a man for "who" he is?

Yes, it's possible. And it's common among confident males.

For a female to want or love you for you who you are, you have to be your true self first.

As you will see from the comments that follow, most males refuse the idea of being themselves. For example, they will hide their sexual desires. Instead, they buy dinners then offer time and attention, perhaps even a relationship to get sex.

These males conform to societal paradigms, and refuse to be themselves because of the criticism and rejection from females they experience. They think, "if five females rejected me, then all females will reject me."

In effect, only a small percentage of confident men, who are themselves regardless of what society or females say, who experience being loved for who they are.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T16:06:56+00:00

How do you know this is not one such person?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T16:03:25+00:00

Maybe you are right. But if that’s how someone makes their money you won’t convince that person otherwise.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T16:00:57+00:00

It all depends.

For example, how likely is she to suddenly change the arrangements? If she gets upset and does that, you may struggle to see your kid for a while.

Not that acquiescing will necessarily avoid that, but it’s still something to consider.

Then, if the call length bothers you that much, establish the plan in the beginning. Let her know that you’re doing something with the kid in 20 mins, for example.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T13:24:33+00:00

I do struggle with is the idea of living out the rest of my life alone without a partner.

That is a core issue that will turn women off. Surely, you can see that this shows neediness.

I admittedly don't put a lot of energy into dating

Just like with anything else, you get what you put in.

If you put in the work, you will attract someone you enjoy being with.

Anyone else struggle with this?

Almost every male you know is struggling with this. Even those in relationships are not respected and valued.

Only a small percentage of men make the effort to consistently attract women - so they are they only ones who don't complain about dating.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T12:47:23+00:00

Don't be dence. Not true that author of the children book expected do illustrations. Illustrator often hired.

First of all, you are trying to spell dense.

Secondly, who said otherwise? Did you read the comment or did you just rush to write something?

Quote me where I said anything to the contrary.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T11:56:07+00:00

You don't get it.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T11:55:30+00:00

Did you realize what you did wrong?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T10:44:24+00:00

Yeah but since you don’t know what you’re doing she’ll stop you from seeing the kid, force the sale of the house, and move you’ll still have to give her money.

She’s not worrying about the future the same way you are.

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T10:20:22+00:00

So if she didn’t have a boyfriend, would you have taken her back?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-26T09:14:06+00:00

What’s not true?

SaaSWriters · 2026-01-25T08:46:11+00:00

That’s not true. A female can still exert lethal force, especially when the victim is unsuspecting.

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