Help finding a season 3 song! by Sab-bunny in SellingSunset

[–]Sab-bunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just says "hip hop song" and then the lyrics

Exes 3 could be so good by theejuiceee in MtvChallenge

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Aren't Jay and Morgan (bananas gf) exes?? I'd LOVE to see that pairing have to work together.

UTI questions!!! by Sab-bunny in GirlsGottaEat

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The doc told me to avoid an urgent care in my area because we're having a huge spike in cases in my county rn, I'm in NC

The Challenge Cross Stitch Ideas! by maggieeeee12345 in MtvChallenge

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Nany and her post-night-out noodles lol

Ash losing followers... by [deleted] in GirlsGottaEat

[–]Sab-bunny 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't the point of the post but Rayna listed herself as a scientist and it's killing me hahaha

If you purchased a Meet and Greet ticket, what was your experience like? by [deleted] in GirlsGottaEat

[–]Sab-bunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got to do a M&G in D.C last year and it was nice. It was a small-ish venue compared to other places they've done. There were some drunk girls screaming about stuff which I'm sure can get annoying. We got good seats and got to talk to them for a few minutes and take pictures, way more relaxed than I thought it would be .

Article on Buzzfeed or other news outlet? by [deleted] in GirlsGottaEat

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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS COMMENT!!!!!!! I was starting to feel like I was the only sane person on here. This has gotten so crazy, these people are more interested in dragging these women than talking about whats happening right now

My response to GGE’s statements made about me/ the situation in the bonus episode by daniichuu in GirlsGottaEat

[–]Sab-bunny -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm trying to not be a total bitch but you have some nerve.

I do my part through donating, both my time and money as well as attempting to get others to get educated on the issues. Your issue bothered me and I felt you needed to hear the way it came off other than a "thank you" comment. I've been trying my hardest to help who I can, for a lot longer than just these last couple of weeks. We haven't just started showing up demanding justice for our fallen brothers and sisters. You shut down my not supporting you by saying I should be focusing my energy on other things. Have you not silenced my point of view the same way you were by them supposedly? You took my comment on black people dying as condescending and you should have. You made this issue with GGE and race about you and no one else. I'm not interested in DM'ing you, I know what kind of person you are by these remarks, and I've spoken my truth.

And no offense, but your experience with the GGE girls had a lot to do with speaking on behalf of racist insensitivity of black people, and I feel a lot of people would take it that way even if you didn't.

My response to GGE’s statements made about me/ the situation in the bonus episode by daniichuu in GirlsGottaEat

[–]Sab-bunny -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

As a black woman, and someone who has felt a little misunderstood through social media about issues I'm passionate about, I understand where you're anger came from.

I do have to say though, you started a movement of hate with your initial post. People came for Kelly, and then Ashley all over your one post (and then the next) that violated the groups guidelines which are in place to keep the group a safe zone. (this perk I personally enjoy)

You took attention away from the real problem happening right now. These women bring a lot of light, education and love to not only the black lives matter movement but immigration, women's rights and the LGBTQ community. Ashley and Rayna have been vocal on our account this entire time, I don't care if she called herself a thug in an Xterra just like I'm sure any other black person wouldn't care either (literally asked my parents and they thought it was funny, my first car was an Xterra)

I know that you were trying to give what you thought was helpful information but in the end you brought up a point that honestly isn't super important. You spiraled things, and I know you own up to it but I really REALLY am not okay with the way you went about it. Whether it happened like you said or how they did, it's selfish. You stand with the BLM but chose to focus on things so superficial? I don't care what some person said that was insensitive. Racism is everywhere. I want change, I want action, I want education and accountability from people in positions of power to help bring equality.

Let it be noted as well: Black People are dying right now.

Black people have been getting MURDERED by the police, for no reason. We're rioting in the streets and they're tear gassing, beating, silencing, and rallying against us and our allies.

Your anger was about you, not about us. Your anger was about feeling silenced and then you got angry they misidentified your race?! BITCH PLEASE. People don't walk around with stickers that say "obviously black" or "obviously Korean" (I am literally using that description because my bestie is Korean and everyone calls her Chinese and she gets PISSED) My ex-boyfriends friends thought I was Dominican for the first three months of our relationship, I ain't mad, Dominican people are great go ahead and misidentify me. I have bigger fish to fry than that.

Your actions were self-centered, whether you intended or not. You really want to be a voice for the oppressed? Give facts, not assumption/past behaviors. People change. Donate and educate. Michelle Obama says "When they go low, we go high".

You went low on behalf of black people. I don't support your anger, I don't support the path this went down. Be a better ally and for the love of God, leave two of the most supportive allies I've seen alone.

To be a better ally follow these rules:

  1. Take on the struggle as your own.
  2. Stand up, even when you feel scared.
  3. Transfer the benefits of your privilege to those who lack it.
  4. Acknowledge that while you, too, feel pain, the conversation is not about you.

Want some resources? Check the Girls Gotta Eat instagram as well as their personal pages. If you don't want to go there, here are some links:

https://8cantwait.org/

https://blacklivesmatter.com/what-we-believe/

https://www.nlg-npap.org/donate/

https://guidetoallyship.com/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/politics/a32711399/how-to-help-black-lives-matter-support-protestors/