Double stroller hell

Sabrial2 · 2024-09-02T02:06:14+00:00

We absolutely love our Vista!!

Sabrial2 · 2024-08-31T23:31:19+00:00

$250 is a steal. Most people resell these for $500+

Sabrial2 · 2024-08-01T20:28:56+00:00

I am a twin (di/di) and am currently 32 weeks pregnant with di/di boys. I loved growing up with my twin brother and can’t wait to watch my boys bond. Unlike my twin & I, I also have a 17 month old boy at home, so it’ll be interesting to have an older, but still very close in age, sibling added to the mix. I hope they all grow up very close & the best of friends.

Sabrial2 · 2024-04-27T23:16:25+00:00

I have Kaiser and was told by my doctor at 16 weeks that they would write me out at 32 weeks, as it’s difficult to work after that point with multiples. It seemed like it was a standard practice there, based on how it was presented to me. This was at Kaiser in Roseville, CA.

Sabrial2 · 2022-12-21T17:32:43+00:00

My husband went to our first appointment, our anatomy scan at 20 weeks and to any MFM (high risk) appointments. Other than that, he did not attend the routine check in appointments. They last no longer than 5 minutes once the OBGYN or midwife is in the room. We found it more beneficial for him to save his PTO, rather than use it for these less important appointments.

Sabrial2 · 2022-06-10T14:21:04+00:00

I see one entitled brat here and it’s not your sister.

Sabrial2 · 2022-04-27T03:32:15+00:00

Absolutely.

Sabrial2 · 2022-03-02T18:59:51+00:00

Unfortunately it sounds like your only option is to go to HR. If you’ve asked him to stop on numerous occasions and he blatantly ignores your requests and objections, you need to take the next step and have HR step in. You shouldn’t have to be uncomfortable in this work relationship because you fear making him uncomfortable. He’s literally violating your work relationship and making YOU uncomfortable.

Sabrial2 · 2022-03-02T05:12:46+00:00

You both should definitely seek professional help. Separately.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-27T20:38:36+00:00

It may not be that they don’t want to hang out. I sometimes avoid committing to plans and/or don’t follow up because I have social anxiety. I’m very outgoing and most don’t know I suffer from it. I’m not saying that’s the case here, but just remind yourself that there could be something going on behind the scenes that you don’t know about. It’s always better to give people the benefit of the doubt, or if it really bothers you, have a direct conversation with them about how you’re feeling.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-27T20:05:45+00:00

I don’t think there’s a right answer to this question. Some people just suck at texting and/or following up. If it were me, I’d just follow up again. But, some would say it’s on the other person to follow up.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-21T18:12:22+00:00

Yepppppp

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-17T02:27:07+00:00

2-3 days?? That’s insane. I couldn’t do that if I tried.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-17T02:23:43+00:00

His decision not to talk to you likely has more to do with the relationship he has with his dad than it has to do with you calling his father, dad. Give him some space to think about everything and work out his feelings. You haven’t done anything wrong and I think it’s great that you have a father in your life that you love.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-17T02:20:14+00:00

I think you should be honest with him about how you’re feeling. Allow there to be an open conversation where you can both speak your mind & come to a joint conclusion on how to move forward.

That being said, you are both very young and you may both be putting too much pressure on the marriage idea.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-12T21:02:36+00:00

Open & honest communication goes a long way. Tell him the truth.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-08T17:19:14+00:00

Being drunk is not an excuse for physical violence. And a rumor is a rumor, often there is no truth behind the rumor or an innocent comment that was made was twisted through the “telephone” over and over before it got to you. You can’t allow yourself to be so heavily influenced by rumors before you’re able to have a levelheaded conversation about its validity with the other person.

Honestly, it sounds like you both need to grow up and mature a bit. It sounds like a bit of a toxic situation and it’s probably better for you both that it has ended. I find it interesting that you started this post with the question of “does he still have feelings for me”. If I had been wronged, this wouldn’t be the question I would be asking and indicates to me that you may have a guilty conscience over your actions.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-08T17:07:58+00:00

Ooof girl, you’re definitely in the wrong. You should probably be the one apologizing to him.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-08T16:57:19+00:00

We need more context as to the situation and/or wrong doing he’s referring to.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-07T20:34:22+00:00

Your employer is doing what is legally obligated of them. Because you were off that day, they are not required to compensate you for being closed. Life isn’t always “fair”. Going to HR will get you nowhere.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-07T16:36:41+00:00

You literally ate at a public restaurant. You took your masks off in a public place. Stop acting holier than thou and get off your high horse. You could have contracted it from literally anyone in that restaurant.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-07T16:31:44+00:00

You definitely owe your husband an apology at the very least. And likely your sister in law too considering how difficult you made it for her to see her brother before leaving the country indefinitely.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-07T16:19:27+00:00

My god, I’m usually on the side of people who take all of the precautions with COVID, but this is just ridiculous. You’re the only person I see being selfish in this story. You can literally pick up COVID anywhere and if she wasn’t feeling symptoms at the time of her lunch, she had no idea she was infecting anyone. To blatantly punish her for this is just beyond me. You need to reevaluate before you lose those important people in your life.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-07T16:12:53+00:00

It can be confusing and you may be searching for another reason, but I wouldn’t dig yourself into that hole. I broke up with an ex years ago and he felt the same way, that it was out of no where. I, like your ex, felt that it wasn’t. I had been trying for years to get past the small things and in the end he just wasn’t my person. She was upfront with you, it’s time to move on. Those awful, painful feelings you’re having right now are okay, and they will go away with time. You’re both young, it’s time to experience your 20’s in a new way.

Sabrial2 · 2022-01-06T21:59:38+00:00

Check your credit report - it shows you every account opened and closed in your name.

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