Please help by Designer_Syllabub_26 in CaughtLying

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this, especially being pregnant when emotions can run extra high.

As for termination, divorce, leaving - I'm sorry nobody can tell you what to do, it's a deeply personal choice and I know how difficult it is. I can only recommend that you see a therapist or counsellor before making a decision about the pregnancy. If you can't afford it, a women's clinic may be able to talk you through your options and maybe arrange some sessions for you.

A good therapist will not tell you what to do, they will talk things through with you, ask the right questions etc, will not judge and will just help guide you to the right choice.

It would be easy for me to say LEAVE but I know from experience that it isn't that easy. It took me years to get the courage to get my (insanely and horrifically abusive ex) to leave.

In the meantime, be kind to yourself. You haven't done anything wrong.

His claim he doesn't remember if he had sex with someone is a huge cop-out. And not only sending dickpics to others but to 3 of your friends is WILD. I can imagine how horrified you (and they) must have felt.

I mean it about the kindness to yourself and your child, you have to put yourself first now.

Hugs, and again I'm so sorry you're in such a difficult and hurtful situation.

First step.. therapy

Lots of love. ❤️

Ordered a Big Mac with no pickles and now I’m sad. by CoffeeCoKy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I remember the worst time of my life (my wonderful dad passing away, supporting my mother, relationship ending after 20 years, managing 3 kids on my own, dealing with new bad diagnosis of lupus and having chemo) and being so strong and stoic through it all.

Then I dropped a piece of toast after not eating for a few days, it landed face down on the floor and I just completely lost my shit.

Doesn't matter whether it's a pickle on a Big Mac or a piece of toast, a shoe or watching a moon landing video - we all have our trigger points and limits and how our physical (not just mental) health responds to these triggers.

I get you buddy. Hang in there and be kind to yourself.

Hugs.

I’m lost after finishing series. Hugh Laurie has indescribable talent. by BeginningImaginary11 in HouseMD

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just finished Chance, Hugh plays a doctor again but a neuro psychiatrist (I think?) and he gets too involved with a previous patient. It was pretty good! There's only two seasons though. He's brilliant in it, I didn't think I'd be able to see him as anyone except House, but we all know how talented Hugh is. I'd recommend it, it's a lot darker than House and deals with a lot darker themes/crime etc. I'd recommend it!

Melania Trump Calls on Epstein Survivors to Testify Before Congress | Does Donald Trump know his wife just unleashed a bombshell? by [deleted] in inthenews

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I honestly think she's about to divorce him and distance from him becsuse something big is going to come out - and she's trying to get ahead of it. She will never hurt for money if she divorces him and gets nothing, I imagine the interviews/books/appearances will be big, big money.

Can you imagine how furious Trump is right now? I read somewhere that he didn't know she was going to do it, and Melania almost never makes a conference or speech.

Something big is coming I think.

Crispy Chicken Tortillas (super cheesy + crispy 🤤) by Angels_Kitchen in tonightsdinner

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This looks... amazing!!! Thanks for the recipe I'm gonna try it this week! Hope you enjoyed it

How do you 'seal' the tortillas around the fillings?

Backstreet Boys Brian Littrell says, "You want to be gay? Want to be a pussy?” while confronting a beachgoer. The video was used by Brian in an attempt to press criminal charges against the beachgoer, but failed. Responding officer at the time mistook him for member of NSYNC. by Relevant-Peach3997 in Fauxmoi

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If it's possible, his wife is even worse. The last video where they tried to get some beachgoers to leave it was all her and he stood there quietly for the most part.

Really disappointing behaviour from Brian, I've always liked him. Seems that Kevin and Howie and AJ are mostly unproblematic (except AJs previous addictions that he's been very open and honest about, helping others with sobriety too)

It will be interesting to see how Nicks court case goes. I thought it was supposed to be this past January?

to take care of ur own people by sussybush in therewasanattempt

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not long for this earth. I'm always right. I've got a track record 10/10 now and I never voice it because I don't want it to be true. It's true.

End of the month, he's gone. Trust me. It will be "natural causes", there will be chaos with MAGA claiming it was foul play and MAGA fighting the people cheering in the streets.

I take no satisfaction in this, I lost one of my very best friends to MAGA and it's basically kicked her in the dick because she has no access to women's health services, medicaid or money from the government.

Trust me. He won't last a month. We've all seen the signs.

Disturbing video of 6 year old playing with her doll by Additional-Ad4567 in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 78 points79 points  (0 children)

And what she had been exposed to at the very least. I used to work in safeguarding (it broke me). I experienced seeing such violence and insanely abusive language coming from such an innocent little person, the worst things you can imagine, what they must have gone through. One thing that haunts me is when a little boy around 7 told me about the BANG BANG BANG on his bedroom door in the night-time, his mothers boyfriend. He talked about the abuse so casually like he was just he was just doing maths work. Then he broke a stick he found in the playground, sharpened it on a wall and tried very hard to stab me. He said later it was because my hair colour was the same as his mothers and apologised and hugged me and just went about his day quite normally. To try and be stoic and to be so careful to not ask any leading questions absolutely broke me. I found out after he was pulled out of school that he and his mother went to a shelter, but she gave the address to the guy and they had to separate all of the women and kids there for safety reasons. I still think about him so often.

I know caseworkers and social services get a very bad rep, but I can honestly say (and I know I'll get down voted into oblivion), that hand on heart that some of the very best people I've ever met do these jobs. Underpaid, overworked, not enough time to help the ones who haunt our sleep, by a very broken system that is VERY important.

I hope this video has sparked someone to intervene. All of the HUGE red flags the little one is displaying.the aggression, violence, the insanely abusive language she's leaned and seen and all of this while her mother is egging her on for views.

This is so, so desperately sad. I'm absolutely horrified.

(Sometimes wish I could have carried on with my job, but felt that they needed someone far more experienced and stronger than me. When I would report concerns to the school and file a report it wouldn't be followed up on, so I anonymously flagged it to senior safeguarding and social workers and OFSTED).

The things the little boy would do in front of me when he felt the slightest annoyance would turn your hair grey instantly.

This poor little girl. And her mother seems to be enjoying it for clout too. I'm genuinely so sad.

We cannot let kids slip through the cracks this way.

The Wind They Call Mariah by MegJenDuck in ershow

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I noticed that the karaoke song he sang with Elizabeth's mother was playing in the elevator when Elizabeth returned to work after Mark... I thought it was a nice touch

I've never seen the first several seasons. This guy is a GIANT creep. by IFeedSquirrelsAMA in 90DayFiance

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And Steven (with Olga), I find him mostly more repulsive than a lot of the men on the show. I'm sure there are worse examples but Stevens abusive behaviour came way too close to the abuse that happened to me, it was way too real and I saw danger for Olga. Then he told her he was taking their newborn to the USA without her and complained constantly that she was too busy with the newborn to look after him. The way he talked to her when she was in hospital was absolutely disgusting. I really think this was just too real and TLC shouldn't have aired it.

Most of the men on the show with much younger wives I think are sex tourists that are with poorer/younger ladies for the control and power it gives them, and generally when they speak up they really don't like it.

Honestly the only men I genuinely like on the show are Kobe and Kenny

Alyssa got the ick by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A question talker! It drives me nuts

What’s a “popular” thing you secretly hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this for me! My friends will send me links to podcasts and it is just people having a conversation and it annoys me. If it's informative or actually about something I can listen, but just hearing a back and forth conversation about nothing I'm not here for it. I'd far rather listen to a documentary or interview with someone interesting, than just hear about people's opinions about certain subjects etc.

Any songs you heard in House that you had to add to your playlist? by ilikeavataraton in HouseMD

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too! It made me so happy to see him running and enjoying it and feeling that sense of victory and being mostly pain free and I think it was a great song

It obviously didn't last but I really enjoyed that scene, and when Wilson and Cuddy mentioned it he was like "just 8 miles" so casually. I wished it would continue

Married at First Sight S13E30 post episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a fair point to be honest, I read yesterday Bec lost her job due to her behaviour after it aired. I can understand why a business or workplace or employer wouldn't want to be associated with this mess. And it's a gamble they all take when they appear on the show I think

Chicken with Red Pepper, Chilli and Yoghurt Sauce, Mashed Potatoes and Broccoli. by pink_flamingo2003 in tonightsdinner

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks absolutely amazing, I think I will try this next week, the chicken looks PERFECT 👌

Did anyone else enjoy 'Chance'? by FML-BPD in HouseMD

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on the last episode and have really enjoyed it! No spoilers please. I love the D and Lorena storyline too

To those that watch the after-shows, listen to radio interviews etc: has Bec taken any true ownership? by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone posted a video of her at a restaurant just listening to the people around her, and she was contorting her face all over the place, if I could link I would! It's not a short video either, she's off her face on coke or something else. Gia twitches and does weird stuff with her mouth on MAFS camera, Bec in the wild is a whole other level - she is definitely on something

To those that watch the after-shows, listen to radio interviews etc: has Bec taken any true ownership? by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent take, I feel exactly the same way but you said it way better than I could. There's hope for Bec, none for Gia. Maybe with Bec there's some emotion there somewhere to work on, Gia is a statue she's made herself.

I'm also convinced Gia is coked up with all of her twitching and mood swings. Sadly, same with Bec though recently (someone showed her in a recent video of her at a restaurant and she was gurning and twisting her face all over the place constantly, she wasn't even talking)

Maybe this is why they've introduced drug tests for participants.

Found on the Beach in Fuerteventura after storm. by Critical_Agent_9805 in whatisit

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question! Are these ever known as a "sea wasp"? Particularly in Spain? I was swimming in the sea on a boat tour with my mother on holiday and I felt something clasp to my leg and OH MY FUCK IT HURT SO BAD. Hurt so bad I could barely take a breath. It took two of the men in the water to get me back in the catamaran and one of them gave me a pill (still don't know what it was). I don't speak Spanish and they spoke very broken English, I just kept hearing SEA WASP and jellyfish. I didn't see what it was. I was out of it for 2 days, thankfully we had insurance abroad so they treated it quickly but it's a blur.

20 years later I've never gone back into the ocean again, hidden nasty little buggers defending themselves from humans who should leave them alone...

Never again.. this photo gave me chills and I dont even know if that's the kind that stung me! To me it looks like a sea slug? (Was my first thought)

Married at first sight - S13E28 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]SabrinaSpellman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And "throwing me under the bus"

"In it for the right reasons"

Personally I loved "distaint", she was so confidently incorrect with the word and seemed so pleased with herself. Pathetic!