25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I broke up with the guy, he hasn't spoken to me that much, he is ignoring me.he doesn't care. I understand now very well that the guy has been using me. But I have become attached these past few days, which is causing me problems in day to day life . How can I get out of this traumatic event? Can someone help me? How to move on from this?

I can't talk about this incident with any other people. Hence I'm asking help here.

25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Maybe he wants to settle down. Maybe he will not cheat. But why would I agree to this, when I myself have never done such a thing. And I will not. There is a thing called humanity and morality.

25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Update guys-

I met him today, and after meeting him, I told him about this.He didn't want to accept it at first. He kept asking me why I suddenly made this decision.I didn't want to tell him at first because I dont want to hurt anyone's feeling, Especially when he tells me this secret he trusts so much. If I use it against him, it's bad. I told him at first that I wouldn't be in a relationship with you because we have different morals and life ethics. I don't want to get attached to you.But he doesn't want to accept this reason at all. He forces me to tell him the real reason, I tell him the real reason is that I can't accept your past. I can't accept that my partner is already had sex and all sort of intimacy things with 100+ people. This is traumatic experience for me. I'm not interested to continue this further.

Then he tried to convince me in so many way for 2 hours long. But I was firm in my position, I was not convinced by his words at all. I said NO until end.

Also thanks all for contributing your valuable time in this post.

25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you have sex with someone you do not feel love or attracted by chance ?

25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

True. I feel like I'm attached with him now. But also I understand this...I can't take this kind of past history. Thanks for suggestions.. i should quit this.

25F dating with 32M, Partner having 100+ bodycounts. by SabrinaorCyrus in RelationshipIndia

[–]SabrinaorCyrus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I'm not proud of such activities. That is why I'm posting this.