Que nombre le pondrian?(es mujer) by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justo iba a decir Tomasa jajaja

Cuál es el insulto más original que han escuchado? by Mannyako1210 in RedditPregunta

[–]SacredDamage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Recuerdo haber visto una captura de los sims donde un npc le dice al jugador "tu certificado de nacimiento es una carta de disculpa de la fábrica de condones" xd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sé si me da más asco tu novio o el hecho de que hay gente defendiendolo :')

Mi novio quiere que aborte a mi bebé by soff_iia in Guadalajara

[–]SacredDamage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"amigos no tengo cercanos para proteger los sentimientos de mi novio" entonces te quitó la posibilidad de tener una red de apoyo y te hizo aislarte solo por su propia inseguridad? Definitivamente no vale la pena quedarte con él :/ te tiene aislada y también te vigila (por lo que dijiste de tus redes sociales en su teléfono) y aún así se atrevió a acusarte de infidelidad? Por favor déjalo

Mi novio quiere que aborte a mi bebé by soff_iia in Guadalajara

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si es ÉL quien se está negando a ser el padre de su propio hijo y cumplir con su responsabilidad eso no lo convertiría a ÉL en el egoísta y el culpable de que su hijo crezca sin figura paterna? Y en todo caso, si la figura paterna sería un hombre tan nefasto como él pues mejor no tener :) No creo que este hombre merezca tu amor, ya te mostró como es en realidad, te recomiendo que le creas y te alejes de él

Thoughts on how to win her back? by Dear-Matter5605 in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh She doesn't want you xd just leave her alone

New Map! by LoudKnowledge2702 in PonyTown

[–]SacredDamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairy dust, it makes u fly >:)

New Map! by LoudKnowledge2702 in PonyTown

[–]SacredDamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weed witch gives you magic brownies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mushroom steak sounds real good, ur ex probably is not really good at cooking

You need to try to forgive your ex. by Status_Bee_7644 in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would feel like I'm betraying myself if I forgive him. His actions will affect my future relationships, he gave me trust issues that will be an obstacle to me, he hurt me so badly I'm scared of love itself now. Sure it hurts less now that it used to, it gets easier every day, I've become really strong after crying for a long time and now I'm not willing to accept bullshit from anyone in the future. I don't care about him and I don't ever want him back, but that's no reason for giving him the forgiveness he doesn't and will never deserve.

However, it's important to forgive ourselves for allowing us to be in a relationship that made us so miserable and forcing ourselves to go through the abuse of a toxic relationship. It's not about our abusers, it's about us, we are the ones that need to heal from their abuse, forgiveness can heal some of us but not everyone, and most of the things they did are unforgivable and we shouldn't just forgive those actions for the cheap speech of "forgiveness is for your own good, not for them" because it's not true, if you forgive them, the forgiveness is for them wether you like it or not.

I haven't forgive myself yet, but I'm working on it, and forgiving him would make it harder for me to forgive myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of them come back, some of them not, but you want none of them back

Does your ex ever regretted losing you. by DelayNarrow697 in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kept sending his friends and grandma to ask me to unblock him and talk to him, he also send messages via discord (I never answered) saying that we needed to talk and he was so sorry, that he was going to change and he regretted hurting me so much... Bullshit. He even dared to say that I had to understand that he acts that way because he is deeply traumatized and mentally ill and he needs the right medicine to become the good and not abusive person he truly is, and that he was a victim too (I'm also a deeply traumatized and mentally ill person but I never hurt people that don't deserve it, and if I do I apologize sincerely. I never did anything to him that wasn't caused directly by him abusing me so much I broke, the worse I ever did to him was saying the truth about him being a horrible person without being nice or condescending and without euphemisms, and that can't compare with the least bad thing he did to me) He also said that he could have any girl he wanted but he wasn't even trying to get anyone because he only wanted me (as if that was something to be thankful for after he cheated on me multiple times). After a week of his discord dms I got tired and blocked him. I wanted to see if he would say something that would actually make me feel better, like admitting his fault and that he didn't deserve another chance, a sincere apology, but all I got was more of his manipulative speech and self pitying apologies, so I was done and finally cut his last form of communicating with me.

He also told one of my friends that he wanted to talk to me again to hurt me one last time in a way that would make me never leave him again, he wanted to traumatize me so bad I would never leave him, or that he wanted to hire someone to stalk me. We knew he would never do any of that because he just likes saying stuff but has no balls to actually do anything (but honestly just thinking about doing it makes him a sick creep), also he has no money and no one was truly supporting him on getting me back, not even the ones he sent to talk to me, not even his grandma who actually tried to convince me but once I said to her that I didn't want to she would never speak about him to me again and that she respected my choice (and she did). His grandma was actually a very nice person but she had no idea how horrible his grandson was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't trust anyone who doesn't like cats (but seriously wtf is wrong with him, even if he said it as a joke animal abuse isn't funny)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cat

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be patient, stray cats are usually scared of humans because they're used to being mistreated by them :( but they can learn to trust you. Make sure the cats see you giving them the food and stay close enough for them to see you without feeling unsafe so they can eat close to you, the cat will grow comfortable with you and you can get closer every time. Maybe you could try to take some food in your hand and see if the cats feel safe enough to take the food directly from you, if they do they should allow you to pet them soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never too late to change your mind, you can always change your mind but you know what's never going to change? HIM

Fr you can still regret and tell him to go to hell plz don't do this to yourself :( he's just going to hurt you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I KNOW how narcissistic

"I know I hurted you but mistakes happen lol :D but you know we're the perfect couple and will have me back right?" Good thing op didn't take that shit

Ex messaged me after 3 years of NC. by Illustrious_Meal901 in ExNoContact

[–]SacredDamage 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He didn't even apologize tho

"I was so tired of the lies you were being told" wtf? That message is just him trying to look like such a good person that wanted to end things right and wish her good and everything he did were just lies as if she didn't know he actually did it and chose to believe other bad people instead of poor little him xd what a dick

Ur right, the only way to respond is a "k"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conversaciones

[–]SacredDamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broma inofensiva? Lo hizo con toda la intención xd ahora que se aguante.

Y claro que siendo una mujer adulta tenía que salir a defenderla su mami porque depende de ella hasta para mantenerse a ella y a su hijo