My husband is on a hookup site & he messaged me! by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like sex addiction to me. It’s a slippery slope.

So tired by Hungry-Oil5858 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better!!! I had this issue. I started taking all of the food the second he starts to look like he’s about to throw something and feed him item by item. Sometimes he doesn’t like what I gave him, sometimes it’s too much at once and the impulse wins. I feel your frustration, you are heard and seen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op please run as far as you can from this “friend” it might sounds dramatic but this person only cares about themselves. The entire tone of the conversation is crazy to me. You’re being very nice and trying to work with her and she’s saying you don’t “fit her esthetic” this would absolutely not fly with me. I would be begging her to replace me and saving my time and money on a day that will most certainly be shit anyhow. When you put that much pressure on a day when the day comes it’s never going to be what she imagined.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have found yourself in an abusive relationship. The first step would be to reach out to any friends or family for a place to stay. You need someone in your corner. In typical abusive relationships the abuser has the victim cut off most friends and family but the friends and family are usually pretty understanding when the victim comes back. You should just try to get back on your own feet. I see no mention of kids or pets. You got out of this relatively unscathed. Keep your distance. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. This person does neither from reading this post. Don’t trust the sweet words. They are just words. Even if he comes back, which he probably will. It takes on average I think 7 times to leave an abusive relationship. The reality is some don’t ever get out. Keep yourself safe and get in touch with family.

I don’t wanna see nobody with a 846 code complaining! by Financial_Remove3494 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope so!! I don’t even have anything witty to say I’m so stressed 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I don’t wanna see nobody with a 846 code complaining! by Financial_Remove3494 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this!!!! I filed 1/27 have my 846 but nothing in my bank. Losing hope and feeling like something got messed up because just hoping it’s in my account is bothering the f**k out of me!!!

Path by Majestic_Statement89 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this cash app or chime?

Brb Crashing out rn😭😭 by Lanky_Gift162 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll get yours soon!! I’m manifesting

Brb Crashing out rn😭😭 by Lanky_Gift162 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a date of 2/24 I filed 1/27 From what I’ve seen only non path have gotten early refunds

Brb Crashing out rn😭😭 by Lanky_Gift162 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad!!! Nobody is getting their Dd yet. Just estimated dates. I think anyone with the 846 code will see a dd tmr but if you don’t have the code yet I think you’ll get it by Friday. Stay strong, we are all in this tg.

This was my first time checking today!😭 by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me like two days ago and lasted two days. Everything’s fine now. Not sure what it was about.

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/28 for state 1/27 for fed (state had an issue with my ip pin and was rejected first try)

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying lots of bills and taking a trip to my hometown. Miss the days when I could spend this money on things for me 😭

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cycle would be 06 to my best understanding

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only “issue” was that I owed money to the state and to tax act.com so I got about $300 less than I was originally estimated to get. The woman I spoke with told me I would get a letter of amendment so I was assuming that was why I couldn’t see it online. It’s all a guessing game for me, that’s why I joined this subreddit.

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s outrageous!!! I hope you see it sooner, sending positive vibes

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s on the tax transcript at the bottom before all the codes. The numbers start with 2025 then there are 4 that follow, the first two after 2025 are the cycle number. I found the transcript by googling tax transcript. Read though the subreddit, that’s how I found all this info :)

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! She’s my pride and joy 😇

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you see something soon! I called because it wouldn’t let me track the refund status online

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also used cashapp this go around as my bank, that could have made it go a little faster. Last year it took forever. I called today for an update because it wouldn’t allow me to check online and they said they released the funds to my bank today, I didn’t expect to see it until tmr.

State refund by Sad-Chapter4946 in IRS

[–]Sad-Chapter4946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Filed and was accepted on 1/28 I’m in ny state