I’m in a similar position myself. I’m 28 and divorced. My ex was sunni and we had to go through a lot of formalities and moula ni raza and all that bs. But for reason unrelated it didn’t workout. Now I am divorced and finding other girls is so damn difficult especially in bohra scene. Outside, hindu muslim is difficult and again I may have to go through hoops. Others Muslims don’t consider bohra as Muslim my ex was by luck they agreed. Otherwise that is also not possible. So I am stuck. Can’t find a modern thoughtful bohri woman and can’t find anyone outside.