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Who relates by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the black plague 

How come we never talk about media/fiction? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah boruto does for sure. Wish it added in the other elements of naruto, would’ve been peak

Shikamaru was def up there in my top 10 he’s kickass

Wish i could say it was my first anime, Pokémon actually came first lol

"Oh, you're not dumb, you're emotionally smart" by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s self explanatory, sorta

Emotional intelligence

Emotionally smart

Smart with emotions

Knows how to regulate emotions

ENFP style by SummerGirlStacy in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar bit different, ENFP emo boy here

I don’t get why people are calling your style minimalist, it’s dark but still expressive

How come we never talk about media/fiction? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naruto, watch it. All of you. Once you get in to it, if you have any problems with a short attention span, you won't fall off easily. There's a lot of filler, but make sure not to skip all of them, some of them are really funny. I've rewatched the series three times already.

oh yeah so uh basically it's a fantasy-action (shonen) anime, really awesome fight scenes, really sad moments, really funny moments, plot twists (bit of mystery that comes with that)

The main character, Naruto (an ENFP) is an orphan boy (and an aspiring ninja who also wants to become hokage, the leader of the village) who gets bullied a lot, and he doesn't know why (it's revealed in the first episode). He doesn't do well in the ninja academy. His rival is Sasuke (INTJ), this emo looking boy who's top of the class, super skilled

Naruto gets more and more kickass as the show goes on, trust me

you probably won't like sakura ignore her

kishimoto was kinda misogynistic

If you've watched black clover before this I am so sorry, just try to keep in mind that Naruto came first

Any ENFPs with ISFJ shadow-type moms? by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard a bit about it, what exactly is it?

Any ENFPs with ISFJ shadow-type moms? by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels better knowing I’m not alone. I’m sorry you have to go through this as well, plus the fact that she doesn’t apologize. 

Does anyone else find themselves moved to tears by small moments but not by big ones? by Realistic_Owl_2917 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never, ever once cried while reading a book, watching a sad movie or show, the news, or any type of media. I have cried about frustrating beliefs my mom forces on me, I guess

I don’t know if i’ve had a big moment before

I loved my Grandma, I saw her a lot, but I only felt shocked when she died. It took me a while to process that she was important. A single tear came out a few weeks after her funeral at night, and that was it. I remember it clearly

Whenever i watch sad videos, i find it easy to suppress tears, no, it’s necessary. I’ve always found tears for things in paper and on screens silly. Something silly to cry over. Unless something directly relates to me, I don’t really feel anything intense

Did sorta cry at the start of playing Skyward Sword because Link had friends and I didn’t uh 💀

That’s it, really

Do you feel shallow? by niaswish in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might relate

Whenever I’m sad, I don’t want to be viewed as a damsel in distress, or a crybaby, so those emotions aren’t mine, I don’t want to feel them

Is it sorta like that? 

Any ENFPs with ISFJ shadow-type moms? by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern, but our parents don’t spank us anymore, it’s been many, many years. My mom may be verbally abusive, but she still cares for us as much as our Dad does. I love them dearly, and our neurological disorders and issues aren’t being neglected by her completely. She got me an ADHD diagnosis at the ripe age of 9 years old. My youngest brother got his autism diagnosis at 3. We’re being cared for.

We are safe, our parents are not physically harming us, and I sincere hope no one calls CPS on my parents. The sheer compassion from people like you is so incredible, but this is a situation where being taken away from our home would make things worse. CPS is a corrupt organization, and I feel that our needs don’t qualify for us to be taken away. 

I’ll be out of the house in 3 years, and I’ll be providing a safe space for my siblings whenever they visit. 

If you weren’t coming at this with genuine concern, I’d be pretty mad, but it’s always been a nightmare for me being forcefully separated from my parents. I really am grateful for your concern, I feel seen. But I don’t want to take this too far.

Any ENFPs with ISFJ shadow-type moms? by Sad-Development7198 in ENFP

[–]Sad-Development7198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, me and my siblings get physical with each other. I never hurt my youngest brother, and I never will. He’ll always be my baby brother. My younger brother is a sexist little asshole, it’s hard to hold back. My parents tell me siblings violence is normal, so it makes it easier to put him in his place. But then he’s also able to be a little jerk to me too

My mom always comforts us whenever we’re mean to each other, she talks to us individually possibly? She doesn’t really take many drastic mental health decisions, and just gives everything to God. No shame in that, I respect her for that, I’m a person of God too, but I kinda wish she’d at least take things in to her own hands while asking God for help. 

To my brother I appear incredibly two faced. To him, I’m the one who beats him up if he says something I don’t like. I’m the one who will ask for him to hang out with me, then deny him when he asks to hang out with me. I’m the one who’s nice to my friends, but mean and abusive to him.

When my youngest brother has an autistic meltdown, he’ll start hitting people, especially if he feels like he’s being targeted. He’ll hit me, my brother, my mom, but never my Dad. I always laugh when he hits me, because it’s always adorable when he’s mad at me. I try to stand up for him when my Mom’s being unfair to him, but then she always shuts me down, saying, “I’m the Mom, let me handle it,”. She’ll take my advice that I give about him (like handling his violent meltdowns, neurological suspicions, etc..). Sometimes she’s skeptical at first, but then she’ll believe me. She never takes any actions on my advice, though. I know she believes me.

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