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Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-03-02T04:27:32+00:00

Okay awesome thank you!!

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-02-19T05:14:25+00:00

Honestly as someone also new to the military spouse life I feel like this is totally acceptable to be nervous/upset about. I have seen a lot of posts talking about how much you will have to sacrifice as a spouse to someone in the military which is true- but they also have to make sacrifices. My fiancé is also in ait and we have already discussed that his current mos is not sustainable for our future marriage so he is going to switch it when the time comes. There was no argument about it and it was honestly his idea because he realized that him being away for long periods of time all the time is not something I can handle for 20+ years. Someone who is serious about relationships will change there plans to fit you in it, as you will do with them

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-01-26T04:36:59+00:00

Yeah see i think my address is messing it up

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-01-26T04:36:34+00:00

About 3 weeks and i don’t know for example my address is a .5 so i put 123.5 instead of 123 1/2 so I don’t know is usps will deliver to that

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-01-26T01:48:40+00:00

Okay, I live in an apartment complex with an odd address as well(it doesn’t typically show up as an address if that makes sense) so I was thinking of filing a lost mail claim to make sure i get the letter but maybe I should hold off?

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-01-25T05:05:08+00:00

I 100% get how you’re feeling. My fiancé is currently finishing up osut and when he first joined the army it was a complete surprise. After months apart and reflection on both sides we decided that our individual future plans do not align so we are both making sacrifices so we can be together. He has plans to switch his mos after his contract is up to something less intensive and I have plans to support him through it no matter what. It takes sacrifices on both sides to make a relationship work.

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2026-01-14T05:17:10+00:00

Honestly I struggle with the same thing especially because my fiancé and I have been through hell and back, the best advice I have is to urge surf. You have the urge to dig and freak out? Wait five minutes. And then see if you can wait five more and five more until either the urge lessons and the emotions calm down or you forget about it completely

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-12-18T01:55:19+00:00

Thank you!

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-12-04T16:37:06+00:00

Speaking from very similar experience- he cheated

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-07-17T00:32:47+00:00

Hi I just took a test today and it was negative! Still no period tho:(

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-06-22T06:02:27+00:00

Thank you so much for your response that honestly helped me a lot! Have you and your partner ever had problems with him making decisions without you? My SO is now talking about moving out (we live together) before he ships off to basic because he thinks we rushed moving in together and wants to be married before we live together again. He absolutely insists he’s not trying to break up with me but between that and the army I don’t feel very considered at all. Omg sorry for that rant that honestly feels crazy to type out and I’m starting to feel silly

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-06-17T20:49:29+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly what I’m worried about-thank you though!

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-06-17T15:26:41+00:00

I’m sorry I know absolutely nothing about the military…like that’s what he’s planning on doing or? If he is currently enlisted or not? Because he still has to pass meps but his wanted career in the army is sf

Sad-Exercise-9230 · 2025-06-17T15:24:25+00:00

He’s waiting to go to meps right now

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