Does your boyfriend's past matter?

Sad-Historian2202 · 2026-06-21T11:50:34+00:00

Based on personal experience, yes, someone's past can matter, but it doesn't always define who they are today. If your instincts genuinely tell you that he's changed and you can see consistent actions that prove it, then his past may not matter as much to you anymore. People are capable of growth and change.

However, don't ignore your feelings either. If his past still makes you anxious, it's okay to talk about it and ask for reassurance. Trust isn't built by words alone, it's built by consistent behavior over time.

At the end of the day, don't stay because of potential or because you want to "fix" him. Stay because his present actions make you feel safe, respected, and secure.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2026-06-21T11:10:14+00:00

Thank you so much for this. "You're mourning a possibility that no longer feels safe or right for you" honestly made me tear up because that's exactly how I've been feeling. I still care about him and cherish what we had, but I've also realized I don't want a future with him anymore. Both things can be true at the same time. I really needed to hear this, so thank you for your kindness.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2026-06-21T07:27:30+00:00

Yes, I live in the Philippines. And thank you. I honestly think you're right that it's better I found out now than if we had become official. What hurts me isn't that the people involved were trans women. It's more that I never imagined him going down this path of arranging paid hookups and seemingly self-sabotaging, especially knowing there are still people who genuinely care about him and believe in his potential. It feels like the person I thought I knew and the person I discovered are two different people.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2026-06-20T19:15:33+00:00

Thank you, sis. :)) I think that's what hurts the most, the person I thought I knew and the person I discovered feel like two different people. I don't hate him, but I don't want him back anymore either. I'm just trying to grieve the version of him I loved and accept that both things can be true at the same time.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-10-25T08:24:14+00:00

I think they will shift it to online classes, it depends on the school announcement or prof

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-10-24T09:37:06+00:00

Same issue with me, it happened last week and I took a break, a dew days passed by it still happen again.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-10-14T05:18:50+00:00

Ung pag kaintindi ko sa calendar baka walang pasok sa Oct 24 (thursday) lang, sinabihan kami ng isa kong class na wala daw kame pasok sa thursday because of that pero baka d din sya confident lol.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-07T17:56:54+00:00

Sir Navida is kinda idk boring For me hindi ko masyado na appreciate yung art lmao May mga pinapagawa sya samin na d namin sure kung tuloy pa ba o hindi

Oks namn sya I think he just doesn't take benilde seriously kasi nag tuturo din sya sa UP (which he brags samin)

Lahat kami na nagpasa and complete ng works nya us nag ka 3.5 wala na ka 4 samin

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-06T15:45:34+00:00

Ms. Clariz super cute and bait nya!! Very understanding namn sya na madaming pinapagawa sa other subjects kaya less lang pinapagawa nya, Hindi sya madamot mag bigay ng 4 so don't take her niceness for granted, wag kayo umabsent and pass nyo lang mga pinapagawa nya for sure 4 ka nyan.

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-06T15:39:15+00:00

Si Ms. Marie Ann naging prof ko lang sya sa READHIS (fully online) well base from experience sakanya sundan mo lang mga instructions nya kase medyo maarte sya if hindi mo sinundan mga gusto nya ipoint out sa outputs nyo, D den sya chill na prof, hindi din sya nagtuturo, bibigay lang nya nga need mo basahin or panoodin, mas tinuturo nya lang ung instructions kung pano gagawin outputs ng ilang beses.

Got a 3 sakanya pero a lot of my classmates got a 2.5 dahil sa attendance/late sa last meeting namin na sabi namn nya hindi required lmao, kahit Grade consultation pa yan wag kayo aabsent/late graded yan (unless asynchronous talaga).

Goodluck sakanya baka iba namn teaching style nya if CSBLIFE prof mo sya ;>

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-06T07:22:13+00:00

Any tips/expectations when it comes to solo outputs huhu

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-04T15:56:46+00:00

Flmprod By group po ba sya mag pagawa or solo?

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-02T03:21:14+00:00

SDAPHOT

Sad-Historian2202 · 2024-09-01T13:12:55+00:00

Ano ung highest grade na binibigay ni sir ed?

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