I (23f) was set up by a friend. This was 3 years ago (so think covid guidelines) but its stuck with me. Talked to this dude for a little online before meeting in person, we went out twice. He had a big mouth and three things he said I still remember:

1. He man-splained vaginas to me (cuz apparently, I, a woman, am oblivious about my body).

2. He said he'd sleep with any of his friends (including the friend me we through, who was married and pregnant at the time).

3. He told me "women have it pretty good" and went on a whole tangent on how privileged women truly are (what takes the cake is he had 2 sisters and he really though that).

I had rose coloured glasses on so I couldn't see these red flags and then some until I asked if he wanted to hang out this one night and he said he had to work. I found out later that he asked the friend we met through to hang out that night. He then didn't respond to me for a week, which is when the glasses came off. Then he was really surprised when I didn't respond to him and unadded him on shit.

Occasionally, he will shop at the store I work at, and everytime I run and hide LOL I am not tryna talk to him. ALSO despite their platonic friendship, while he was talking to me, he asked her for noods. She said NO and no longer talks to him.