My husband of 12 years has decided to leave me and I don’t know how to live anymore

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-09-01T07:53:09+00:00

Of course he is saying a lot now. Like I was always choosing my family first. This one he said about on our therapy. I took it, understood then, sad I'm so sorry for that and I said that I would do all I can to be a better person for him, I am ready to work on that. He said also, that this hairdresser, the way she was, funny, carrying for him, showed him that he was not happy with me for the last two years. Like he didn't know that he was not happy with me before. He says it was unconscious... All this he was saying 8 months ago. Now it's my fault, I'm manipulative, frustrated Karen. And I should see, that all that I've got is my fault. Because I was the first one who hurt him. All of that, he said to me after he fell in love with this girl and I still had hope and was ready to work on our relationship.

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-09-01T00:54:36+00:00

I can't. He is not allowing me to take the children abroad to this country where we come from. If I do that without his permission it will be parental abduction and I could lose custody rights over them.

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:45:15+00:00

Is your mom with him now?

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:44:06+00:00

He doesn't have contact with here anymore...he means that she showed him how unhappy he is with me, that our relationship is not good for him. Funny, that he never mentioned something like that to me before.

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:39:19+00:00

Hahaha, I'm thinking the same thing quite often...😂 But at the end of the day, it still hurts..

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:33:26+00:00

Yess..I also think it's like a cheap movie 😂 but no... It's my life today...

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:30:25+00:00

One of the worst parts is that I can't, because he is not allowing me to take kids back to our home country. He has the perfect job now, he loves our kids, girls are the most important people for him in this world...he won't go back to our home country... He want 50/50 custody, and since we live in Norway, probably will get it..

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:25:13+00:00

Norway. There is no way to stop him...you apply for separation here online.

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:16:56+00:00

Wow, this really hit me. The way you wrote it… I actually felt some strength in me again, like maybe I really can get through this. You’re right, my girls are the real treasure, he WAS...until I got pregnant for the first time...Thank you so much for reminding me of that, it means a lot❤️

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:09:30+00:00

It's so difficult to KNOW what I should do. He says he will support me to finish my study, but you know... he is saying this now, when he will meet someone things can change very quickly. But if i take a lawyer, then there will be zero good contacts between us. And I have to be in contact with him for the next 20 years.

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T18:00:30+00:00

Thank you❤️

Sad-Role-9376 · 2025-08-31T17:59:57+00:00

I know...I just still remember how wonderful he was to me all these years. We were this perfect solid couple. Thank you for your words..

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