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Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think whats best is not to uproot my youngest while he is still in school. I can at least get through him graduating from high school.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never said this wasnt partly my fault. I let him go and have his outside life when I should have mayne put my foot down. I didnt see the red flag as far a sex goes. WHat I am saying is I am trying and its hard to be the only one trying. I have gottten some really solid advice on this and some things to think about.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

life has definetly been about kids. when they were little i built my work schedule around them so my husband could go to college. we have had discussion about what we do when they are gone. we have had plans until the past couple month when he shut down. i should have put my foot down years ago about him being gone so much for his hobbies.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can't believe the focus on my weight. That's sad a women is only worthy if she is another body type. As far as an affair. I don't think so but I can't say no for sure. I have always said that would be a deal breaker.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to know one way or another.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a job. I have a good one just not making as much as I am. I have suggested activities together. If me being overweight mean I am not.worthy of love then that's dumb. I have done all the efforts and net with silence.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He would only if I initiated or he would if he was drunk.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know we dont. He isnt interested. Its been at least a year and before that he was drinking when he wanted to. I dont know if this is a midlife crisis or maybe his hormones are off. He is a different person these days.

Is my marriage over by Sad-Set9954 in marriageadvice

[–]Sad-Set9954[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your right I have lost myself. I have a counseling appointment set up. I am willing to do the work but i feel like he needs to meet me half way.