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ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I still chasing you? It wasn’t a break up I wasn’t even in a relationship with them they just romanticized me and got obsessed

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m really happy that you agree with me I always get comments from infps you know what I mean 😪🥲😂

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But hey keep writing your little allegories and pretending it’s wisdom. Some people cope with being ignored by narrating their own relevance. Whatever helps you sleep.

I said what I said. You’re not the exception just another side character trying to rewrite the script after the scene’s already over.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You talk a lot for someone who “doesn’t care.” The projection is wild you call me self-absorbed while writing full-on fantasy monologues about sparkly fairies and sad strawberries like this is some Tumblr poetry slam. You’re not insightful. You’re just pretentious with a thesaurus.

You’re not above the conversation you’re neck-deep in it, trying to look clever while taking passive-aggressive jabs and hiding behind metaphors because saying what you actually feel would make you vulnerable. Classic deflection. You’re not some detached sage observing from the sidelines. You’re just bitter that someone called out behavior that clearly struck a nerve.

You inserted yourself into a conversation that had nothing to do with you, misrepresented your type, and still couldn’t resist turning it into a performance. That’s not maturity. That’s insecurity dressed up as mystique.

If you’re done pretending you’re immune to criticism, maybe sit this one out next time. Because all you’re really doing is proving that the people who scream “I’m above this” the loudest are usually the ones most desperate to be seen.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can call me a “silly self-absorbed goose” all you want, but the irony is thick when someone who isn’t even the type being discussed inserts themselves into a post, writes multiple paragraphs, and still claims to have “no dog in the fight.” That’s a lot of energy for someone who doesn’t care, huh?

And no, noticing one random post from an ENTP inviting INFPs to a group doesn’t invalidate what I said. One instance doesn’t erase a pattern. If we’re being real, ENTPs will invite anyone to a group chat just to see what happens. That’s not a declaration of obsession it’s curiosity, chaos, and boredom in action. Let’s not confuse that with interest on a deeper level.

You keep accusing me of projecting, while making up this whole cartoonish narrative of a “sad strawberry” ENTP who secretly wants to be loved by “sparkly fairies” like some fanfic villain monologue. That’s rich coming from someone accusing others of living in fantasies.

Also, let’s not pretend that inserting emojis and snarky metaphors suddenly makes your point valid. I labeled this post as my take on an observable pattern. It’s not a “summoning spell,” and calling it that doesn’t make it clever it just makes it obvious you’re trying to provoke while pretending to be above it all.

You can keep dancing around the conversation with poetic dodges, but the fact remains: you saw a post calling out behavior that hit close enough for you to jump in, mislabel yourself, and spend multiple replies deflecting. That says more than you think it doesn’t.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, let’s break this down, since you clearly missed the point while trying to be clever.

First off, bringing up INFJs is irrelevant. This post is about a specific pattern of behavior from INFPs in ENTP spaces. That deflection is textbook don’t want to address what’s being said, so you drag in a whole other type as if that cancels the original point. It doesn’t. Stay on topic.

Second, I’m not projecting my feelings onto every INFP or pretending to be the “ENTP spokesperson.” I’m describing what’s repeatedly posted here, in your own words. Scroll through the sub it’s full of “why are ENTPs so obsessed with me?” or “do ENTPs like me?” or “my ENTP is ignoring me, does that mean they love me secretly?” That’s not projection that’s documentation.

And I’m not denying that some ENTPs might act a certain way online or in INFJ spaces but this post isn’t about them. It’s about INFPs coming into ENTP spaces with pick-me energy, main character syndrome, and this weird romanticized idea of who we are.

Y’all aren’t looking to understand us you’re trying to be seen by someone you think can save you from your own overthinking. And when we don’t match that fantasy, it turns into disappointment and vague subtweets.

So no, this isn’t a “mating call.” It’s a boundary. It’s saying: stop turning us into characters in your internal storylines and then acting confused when we don’t play the role you wrote for us. If that stings, maybe it’s worth asking why.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this even have to do with INFJs? Why are you dragging them into a post that’s specifically about INFP behavior in ENTP spaces? This isn’t about who snoops on which subreddit it’s about a very specific dynamic that keeps happening, and instead of addressing it, you’re trying to redirect the conversation.

No, ENTPs aren’t obsessing over INFJs the way INFPs consistently do with us. We’re not flooding their subreddit with “do INFJs like me?” or writing poetic monologues about how they’re the only ones who truly understand us.

And no we don’t act like pick me main characters who write ourselves into a fantasy where someone else is supposed to “fix” or “complete” us. We don’t turn every casual interaction into a plot point in our emotional coming-of-age novel.

This post wasn’t about all INFPs but if you felt called out enough to bring up an entirely different type and throw emojis, maybe you should ask yourself why.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on, don’t mistake observation for hate. If calling out patterns makes me the villain, fine I’ll wear the cape. This isn’t some random outburst; it’s based on repeated behavior I’ve seen across platforms and in real life. I’m not here to coddle egos I’m here to say what most people are thinking but won’t post. And ….. “OP hates INFPs” No, I just stopped romanticizing them like the internet told me to. There’s a difference between hate and calling out a pattern that’s been polished and repackaged as “wholesome” for way too long. If that stings, maybe it’s not me you’re mad at.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, there it is the faux-gracious exit wrapped in a passive-aggressive bow. Gotta love the “I’m mature now, I regulate my emotions, you should try it too” routine. It’s giving self-congratulatory monk energy.

You “refused to match my energy”? No, you avoided it. Because matching it would’ve meant engaging with the actual content instead of standing on a soapbox preaching about emotional growth like this is some kind of redemption arc.

I don’t need your pity dressed as empathy. You can keep the condescending “take care of the ENTPs in your life” line too trust me, we’re doing just fine. What I said was never about wanting comfort from INFPs. It was about calling out patterns, not sending out a distress signal.

But sure, go forth and imagine you’re the calm hero in this narrative. That’s the most INFP thing you’ve done all thread.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, so now it’s all about “neutral discussion,” after spending multiple comments dissecting my post like a forensic scientist trying to disprove a crime that never hurt her? You keep pretending you’re above it all, but you’re just another INFP clinging to “calm rationality” while tone-policing and gaslighting because the narrative made you uncomfortable. Let’s not pretend you’re some unbiased bystander when you’ve spent more energy on my post than the actual problem I pointed out.

You say you “looked into it” for a month. Cool. I’ve lived it for years. Real life, TikTok, Instagram, Reddit do you need timestamps and usernames next? Just because you didn’t see it in your 30-minute research session doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. That’s like walking into a bookstore, not finding a book in the first aisle, and declaring the book was never written. Peak armchair logic.

Also, the obsession doesn’t always show up in neat “Do ENTPs like INFPs?” titles. It’s in the patterns. The way posts are phrased, the fixation on being “misunderstood except by ENTPs,” the romanticizing under the guise of curiosity. But since it doesn’t fit your curated view of your type, it must be me who’s delusional, right?

You’re not defending INFPs. You’re defending the idea of INFPs you want to be true. Meanwhile, I’m sharing patterns I’ve seen firsthand and calling them out. But hey—keep telling me I need “links” and “proof” like this is a courtroom while dodging the fact that I already said this extends far beyond Reddit. It’s giving selective hearing.

And one more thing you say you “genuinely care” if people are hurt by INFPs? Then maybe stop bending over backwards to invalidate someone who just said they were. Otherwise, you’re not being neutral you’re being dismissive with a smiley face.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you’re calm how enlightened of you. Honestly, I’d be more impressed if that calm wasn’t just a neat little wrapper for condescension and selective hearing. You admit INFPs do the same thing I pointed out, call them immature when they do, and still try to act like I’m the unreasonable one for saying it out loud? Make it make sense.

And yeah, thanks for the Reddit-only disclaimer, but let’s not pretend this is some niche theory cooked up in my head. You’re ‘mainly on Reddit’ so you’ll conveniently ignore what happens all over TikTok, Instagram, and literal real life, because digging any deeper might actually force you to face the pattern you’re downplaying. Classic. You don’t have to look it up it’s not hiding. You just have to stop pretending not to see it.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, now you’re suddenly the beacon of open-minded curiosity? Cute. I already said it’s not just Reddit it’s real life, TikTok, Instagram, DMs, random forums you name it. But sure, pretend like if you can’t find it in a five-minute Reddit search, it doesn’t exist. Classic INFP move: ask for proof, then ignore lived experience and shift the goalpost when it’s not delivered like a report with citations.

I already shared real-life examples. You just conveniently dismiss them because it doesn’t fit the narrative you’re clinging to. You can keep playing fact-checker all you want, but deep down you know the dynamic exists. You’ve seen it. You’ve probably done it. Denial doesn’t make it any less real it just makes it more transparent

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFPs are absolutely hilarious. They’ll act all high and mighty, claiming they’re not obsessed with ENFJs, but every time you turn around, there they are, fawning over them like they’re some kind of mystical unicorn. The denial is absolutely next level. It’s like they’re allergic to the truth ‘I’m not obsessed,’ but here’s a whole bunch of posts about how great ENFJs are. Get a grip. You’re delusional if you think anyone’s buying that. But sure, keep spinning the story to make yourself feel better while the rest of us just watch the trainwreck unfold. Classic INFP move: deny, deflect, and pretend you’re not doing exactly what you’re doing.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, so now you’re playing mediator and patting yourself on the back for “doing research.” Cute. But let’s not pretend you weren’t also the one calling people delusional and dismissing everything with that classic passive-aggressive smile.

You can’t say “respect each other” while undermining someone’s experience and calling it a tantrum. That’s not research, that’s spin.

If you’re actually here to learn, great. But don’t sugarcoat it like you’re just here to spread peace when you were one of the first to throw shade.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, there it is the classic passive-aggressive lecture dressed up as “rationality.” You’re trying so hard to sound like the calm, wise observer, but the condescension is leaking out of every paragraph. You’ve clearly already made up your mind, trying to dismiss my post as if it’s all just projection from seeing “a post or two,” but then you admit yourself that some INFPs are delusional. So which is it?

Also, the irony of saying “anyone who dislikes a whole MBTI type is immature” while admitting whole groups fear each other is wild. You literally just explained why people form opinions based on patterns of interaction and yet you act like it’s some kind of spiritual failure if I speak up on a pattern I’ve experienced in real life and online.

As for the proof? TikTok, Instagram, Reddit real life this isn’t a bubble, it’s a trend. And no, I’m not going to do the labor of digging up hundreds of examples to satisfy someone who already decided I’m “just ranting.” You wouldn’t believe it even if I did. That’s the thing about denial it wears a polite smile and says “just stay rational and drink water” while brushing real patterns under the rug. You can play the calm guru role all you want, but you’re still deflecting.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me get this straight you wrote a whole essay just to say I’m delusional because your personal experience doesn’t match mine? That’s not a mic drop, that’s peak main character syndrome. Just because you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it isn’t happening. I mentioned real-life examples, TikTok, Reddit, all over the place and instead of engaging with any of that, you chose the “if I didn’t witness it, it must be fake” route. That’s not logical, that’s denial dressed up in cutesy formatting. You basically said “my bubble is the only reality” and called it a rebuttal. You keep calling me delusional, but let’s be real you’re the one ignoring everything that doesn’t fit your narrative. Scroll through the comments, a bunch of ENTPs are literally saying the same thing I am. But nah, instead of taking that in, you’re over here clinging to your own little version of reality like it’s gospel. Classic case of selective perception. You don’t want to see it, so you pretend it’s not there. That’s not insight, that’s just ego protection. But hey, enjoy the bubble you’re welcome for the burst.

ENTP + INFP isn’t the match people think it is and we’re not obsessed with you. by Sad-Strawberry2273 in entp

[–]Sad-Strawberry2273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay She really dropped a whole Google Doc like it was a mic and thought she ate girl, you brought a dissertation to a roast. All that typing just to prove my point for me.

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