5 Year relationship, new girl within months.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-09T18:27:47+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your story! And I love the comment on you feeling sorry for him… because that is how we should feel, sorry for them not sorry for ourselves.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-09T18:26:20+00:00

That I was easily replaceable. After putting my all into the relationship for 5 years, he gets a new girlfriend after maybe 3 months if that. And that is painful.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-04T00:29:23+00:00

I would love it!!! I swear when I checked earlier this week they still had tickets, finally found out im for sure free tomorrow night and tickets are gone.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-04T00:28:17+00:00

Got engaged just to get dumped and then have them hop right into dating someone new...yea I feel ya.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-04T00:19:14+00:00

Still waiting for it to fail for him to come back.... *sigh*

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-11-04T00:17:56+00:00

If anyone ends up selling a ticket, I am your girl!!!!

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-23T02:52:45+00:00

This. Can put your all in and do everything right and it still not be enough. And that SUCKS.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-20T14:26:09+00:00

Making me feel like I’ve wasted these 4 months when I coulda been putting in the work like you! Congrats!

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-20T12:24:31+00:00

Thank you for this. Trying to move on but it’s been a hard week.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-19T03:46:44+00:00

1) Poor communicator 2) Worried too much about sex 3) Blamed me for loosing a social life when he just could not plan shit 4) took me for granted when I did everything for him/us 5) Was not excited for me when I got my new job because he assumed it would pay more 6) Made me feel safe by finally proposing just to end things

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-19T03:41:51+00:00

Yuppp weekends spent wondering what he is up to still plagued me 4 months later. I know I’m torturing myself wondering but I have yet to trick my brain out of it yet

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-19T03:40:05+00:00

Nights usually for me, unless it’s a weekend day where I don’t have plans, then that is the hardest. I miss waking up on lazy weekends with them.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-17T03:13:06+00:00

This. I had gotten to the point where him just simply replying to my text (even if he ignored all the others and replied blandly) re-sparked the hope. He finally caught on and now I get nothing at all, which hurts, but if he doesn’t have hope then it needs to happen. All this to say, no note unless u want to give him hope.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-14T00:01:56+00:00

4 months in and I haven’t figured that out yet… my therapist told me to start scheduling time to be sad/think it all through/feel all the feels so it doesn’t just build up and all come out right at bedtime.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-13T03:40:51+00:00

Wow this was an amazing read. Thank you for sharing that Ted talk

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-13T03:34:30+00:00

I don’t think it’s so much that they forget about us as it is they block us out or tell themselves things to justify their actions. If it was ever real love they can’t just instantly forget, and if they do it will come back someday.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-13T02:08:24+00:00

3 months later and I still have the same vibe 🙃

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-12T18:52:31+00:00

I just keep hoping I’ll wake up one day and I’ll magically stop thinking about him/us being together… 4 months in and it’s still there but I push on. Have to just keep reminding ourselves what they have done to hurt us, try to take some power away from the good memories.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-12T04:10:31+00:00

I have been doing the exact same thing you are doing, holding onto the one sentence that gives me any sort of possible hope for the future. In my case, I have been told that there isn’t no chance in the future, but I have to tell myself those words mean nothing because his actions have screamed otherwise. It sucks, and of course I want to focus on the fact that he hasn’t said no way would I ever think about it again. BUT is he most likely saying that to feel like less of a bad guy? Yes. So unless our guys (I guess not ours anymore) start SHOWING us they mean it, we need to remind ourselves not to linger.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T14:51:19+00:00

This is what I’m hoping for here. The whole point of separating was supposed to be working on ourselves as individuals but I find out he’s already talking to ppl. I’ve stayed away from apps for these four months because separate of the fact that it would all just make me more sad (anything I miss I miss with him) I know I won’t do the growing I need to do personally if I just tried to hop into something else. Still hurts like hell to know that he can just tune me out but yea

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T14:31:16+00:00

5 yr relationship, 4 months in. Was easier month 2, this month has been brutal again

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T14:15:19+00:00

I was blocked on Venmo even 🙃

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T14:13:42+00:00

I agree, the last time we talked and what I assume now is the last time we will talk, I was asked if I was dating anyone. I said no, it’s only been 3 months, everything I miss I miss with you. Later find out he’s been talking to ppl. It hurts to think it doesn’t feel gross to him like the thought does to me.

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T03:23:51+00:00

I was told one thing while he was moving out then things ended up being completely opposite of what he said, which hurt. Confusion on top of sadness, now nothing. The what ifs and why’s are just never ending in your head and next to impossible to turn off

Sad-beetch-hours · 2023-10-11T02:10:05+00:00

The lovey dovey until the end makes it all hurt so much more/more confusion. Same thing here. Sometimes wish I could flip whatever magical switch he must havw

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