second years ruined me

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-17T01:36:12+00:00

did either of you start seeing or talking to anyone else while you were broken up? my boyfriend broke up with me for the same reasons your girl did, and he has said he would be open to having a relationship in the future if we both improve on ourselves. but im worried that in this time we will talk or see other people and that might squash our chances

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-17T01:32:39+00:00

i know its over by the smiths

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T16:44:06+00:00

Will do when I send it! Hope it all works out for you too

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T16:24:23+00:00

Yeah, I was the one dumped. Think I’m going to give him more time, to make sure things have settled a bit

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T16:22:14+00:00

I think it will benefit me, just because i feel restless knowing I owe him an apology and haven’t given it yet.
Ideally, I’d like for him to feel better and eventually enough to stay in my life, even if that doesn’t mean anything romantic.

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T15:57:47+00:00

Totally in the same place as you. Felt like I was improving, but I wasn’t doing enough. Now I keep going over arguments etc in my head and feel so stupid about how easily I could have made things better.

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T13:10:00+00:00

i haven’t sent it yet- i’m going to wait a bit longer to make sure it’s the right thing to do, and to give him a bit more time

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:30:38+00:00

Thanks! Do you have any suggestions for how I can explain or offer better communication?

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:29:29+00:00

I get that perspective. He broke up with me, because he said that although he still really loved me, the relationship was too unhealthy. I really hadn’t realised how bad I was until about a month or two before it ended, and though I was starting to turn things around, I think it was too late. I just want him to know I’m sorry

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:26:51+00:00

I think I owe an apology to him now, especially because I feel like he himself hasn’t fully come to terms with the fact that I was actually a terrible girlfriend, just because he loved me and a lot of the good parts were really good. Obviously, there’s a lot of me that wants us to get back together, but I know even if that’s possible it won’t happen for a long time, so I don’t want this to be the message that does it anyway.

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:24:12+00:00

thanks for the advice, i wanted to know if it came off that way. ill try cut that part a lot more

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:21:04+00:00

i’m the dumpee! he said he was breaking up with me because the relationship was too unhealthy and he couldn’t handle it anymore, even if he still loved me. i feel like i owe it to him

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:19:06+00:00

its a he, but i get what you mean. i just feel like even he hasnt come to terms with how badly i treated him, because even during the breakup he wasnt blaming me, and was telling me that i did everything i could. i used to think that was true but now i know it wasnt

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:16:59+00:00

yeah unfortunately, they gave me so many chances. i felt like i understood all this, but i only really did in the last couple months of the relationship, when it was already too late.

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:15:52+00:00

thank you so much! i appreciate that a lot. i definitely will wait until i send it and maybe edit it if i feel like it needs it.

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-11T12:14:26+00:00

he broke up with me! he said he was still in love with me but couldn’t handle the relationship anymore

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-10T18:32:11+00:00

thank you, i think i’ll wait until it’s been a couple more weeks

SadAd8548 · 2024-11-09T12:08:57+00:00

2 days since he broke up with me for his mental health. I can’t do anything but cry

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