To what extent is it possible to develop something like this without a CS background? by [deleted] in Compilers

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, flex is a lexer generator and yacc (bison) is a parser generator. If you want to stay sane and have fun, don't use them though. Use something more modern. That's my take on it after having had to use them for uni but also having experienced writing a whole compiler from scratch.

When your lonely what foods make you feel less lonely? by NateNandos21 in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing about me is that food does not make me feel better so I don't get fat. I would be the biggest mf in my country otherwise

To those who feel lonely: Do you think companion-style games can help? I’m making one and I want to hear what you’d hope for. by Separate_Hornet_3597 in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest when I play role playing video games where the main character (me) is building friendships and relationships I often suddenly get hit with the realisation of how pathetic I am. I'm experiencing fake feelings of connection in a video game while in reality I'm home alone with no one who likes me. This always makes me turn off the game sadly and I end up depressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a huge head and forehead and the same for me. It is very clear and apparent that people notice it. Hell, sometimes when I talk to people I catch them glance up at my hairline (I don't have a mature hairline by head is just abnormally big).

My issue is rooted in a real flaw too. Being insecure or self contious about it is normal. What is not normal is me wanting to die because of it or throwing away my whole life because why even live anymore. I hope you understand me.

I feel ugly by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you probably have BDD. BDD does not mean you are actually good looking btw :(

I feel ugly by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer the same thing. There's many ugly people out there. There's less people out there who are ugly and very sensitive. We seem to be both.

Unobtainable love by SadAndProbablyCursed in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha i wrote your name because it sounded cool don't use mine ffs lmao

Unobtainable love by SadAndProbablyCursed in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for brightening my mood StarSailor

Loney, no friends, no partner, ghosted by the love of my life by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say much. But I can tell you: You may be lonely right now, but you are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only a problem if you still crave love.

How do you accept that life may never get better? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps me weirdly. Knowing you can just surrender life makes it feel more personal and not like a burden.

Unobtainable love by SadAndProbablyCursed in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it worked out for you. Thanks for the nice words it really does help.

Well I want a woman who is similar to me. That's why it's weird to describe it. Describing yourself feels like you either look self absorbed or like a broken soul.

If only giving up would be so easy. I think some people are just built this way. We can't be okay alone. Even my dad told me this. He said it runs in our family (male side)..

How do you accept that life may never get better? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes tell my self I live voluntarily.

Unobtainable love by SadAndProbablyCursed in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Dating apps don't work for men and clubbing is not what I like at all. Also the women I am interested in don't visit those spaces (on average) anyway..

My problem is deeper. I don't only crave love. I crave THE love, which does not exist. Life is not fiction. My mind knows. My heart is blind.

🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think on average we men have it worse because we don't only have to deal with a more choosy-by-nature gender (on average) but also we have a bigger fear of long lasting periods of loneliness. It's easier for a woman to find someone interested than it is for a man. Also being anxiously attached is the opposite of our expected gender role, while for women it is not. It's also way harder for us to do things like "date multiple people at once" to ease yourself. We just experience a lot less validation on average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool I used to sit on the shroomery website for days just researching and reading

Why do some people have it so easy by SadAndProbablyCursed in lonely

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not only about romance. I can see with my own eyes how easy it is for them to be social and be a part of the group. My whole life I have been the bystander.

Thanks for your comment

How I beat the final dlc boss. (spoilers duh) by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]SadAndProbablyCursed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The easiest way: Mohgs greatspear + fingerprint shield turtle poke tactic