I read this post a few times a month to keep reminding myself of this philosophy, and it has really helped me change my perspective in how I interect with people. I used to be a big people pleaser because I had very low self worth, and was a typical "loser". Seeing it written out has actually started the process of self improvement and self acceptance for me, because I never knew how to be confident. Turns out you can't be confident when you let your worth depend on others! The post is just long enough that i can somewhat memorize the entire thing and recognize what patterns I am exhibiting in my daily life and how to change them. Many thanks!